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How Telling a Story Can Get You Sex
by Ray Devans
of The Art of the Pickup
February 5th, 2007
Wouldn’t it be great if you could just open your mouth, tell a girl a good story, and then turn her on so much that she wants to have sex with you?
Well, I have good news, it actually is possible!
One of my favorite quotes is from Voltaire who said:
“Give me but 5 minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France!”
There was a man who knew the power of storytelling! But he wasn’t the only man to realize this simple fact.
I remember back in college I knew a guy in my college fraternity who would tell the most interesting stories.
If we were in a party setting, he might start telling his story to just a few people, but inevitably by the time he ended his story, other people nearby would have stopped their conversations in order to listen to him.
He was an average looking guy, and didn’t dress very well (he usually looked like a white version of MC Hammer), but he had much more success with women than most of the guys in our fraternity.
I spent all of my college years wondering what made him so popular with women, and only years later I realized it was his ability to tell really interesting, compelling stories.
There are many levels on which telling good stories will make you irresistible to women. Let’s look at some of these:
1. Center of attention – a good story teller can make himself the center of attention in almost any social setting. If people are gathered around you listening to you, other people who are out of earshot will see you as a leader and someone they want to meet.
2. Good feelings linked to you – if you tell a good story that makes a woman laugh or just generally feel good, she automatically associates those feelings with you.
3. Excuse to talk about sex – combine good story telling with sexual themes and you can get a woman thinking about sex indirectly. The friend I mentioned above used to tell a story about how he woke naked in a sorority house with lipstick marks on his neck after a night of drinking. He had to grab a roll of toilet paper to cover his private parts so he could walk back home. Women absolutely loved this story, but it allowed him to hint that he had maybe had sex in a sorority house, and forced the women to imagine him naked. Done properly, this can work wonders with women.
4. Chance to attract her without bragging - imagine what would happen if you told a girl “I have a nice car, my friends are cool and we do fun things, and I have had a girlfriend who was a model.” She would be immediately turned off. But if these things are true, then you must have at least one or two stories that you can tell that introduce them as assumed facts, but in an indirect and entertaining way that might even seem humble if you do it right.
If you are not yet a good storyteller, don’t worry, it can be learned. The first step is just to write down a number of cool stories that you already know, and make them more interesting. If you don’t have any, then start from scratch.
Then practice telling them in front of a mirror or, better yet, record yourself on video. Then once you feel it’s perfect, start telling it just to your guy friends, then move on to telling it to mixed groups of people.
When you get good at telling single stories, then you can learn to leave one story unfinished and start another, only to leave that one unfinished and go back to the original story. This technique is devastating and keeps listeners literally on the edge of their seats.
Some tips to remember for good story telling are:
- Smile
- Use a lot of hand gestures and body language»
- Speak loudly and project your voice, especially in a loud social setting
- Add pauses for dramatic effect
There is plenty more that you can find out about story telling through online resources and books. Combined with the information in our newsletters and our “Art of the Pickup»” DVDs, you will be unstoppable with women when you master the art of storytelling!
…The End
Ray Devans
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