This is a really simple strategy. If you’re consistent and persistent with this
strategy, this could yield you a lot of beautiful women. It’ll take a long time though,
but then again, it requires almost no effort on your part:) Here’s what you do. You see a girl you like, but for some reason can’t do an approach
(you don’t have the time, or maybe the guts, or the situation disallows it etc), at least
do this – say “Hi”. Keep enough eye-contact to get a confused “Hi” in
return, then continue with what you were doing (walking, working etc). Maybe you’ll never
see the girl again. But if you do (oh joy and behold!:) – say “Hi” again. Then
continue with what you were doing (basically, ignoring her:). And so on, and so on. After
the first three “Hi’s” the girl is still wondering, if or how she is supposed to
know you. After the fifth “Hi” she is already wondering, how come you never
actually talk to her. After the tenth “Hi” she can’t understand, how come you
never even approach her. After the twentieth “Hi” she is so confused and
intrigued about you that she just can’t stand it anymore and will approach YOU instead.
She’ll try to find out how the two of you know, and why you never talk to her, or why you
never even approach her, but you still keep saying “Hi”, is there something
wrong with her etc – be very vague and mysterious about it in your answers (after all, you
don’t have much to tell anyway:). Now however, you’re talking to an absolutely gorgeous
girl (remember, you almost didn’t even have the guts to say “Hi” to her:), who
is so intrigued about you the she approached you – make the best of it:) So the good part of this tactic is – almost zero effort on your part, just remember
saying “Hi” to her:) The downsides however are numerous – you might never see
her again, which is especially bad if she became interested in you when you said your
first “Hi” already. Or you might see her a few more times but not on a
consistent enough basis to build up enough intrigue in her. Also, this takes a monstrous
amount of time to ripen – months, possibly even years. Neither is it much of a confidence-
and experience-builder – you’ll develop a confidence of saying “Hi” to beauties
(not much is it?:) and acquire no experience whatsoever. But it serves it purpose as a
last-ditch resort when you see a 10 approaching down the street, hurrying somewhere – say
“Hi”, get one in return, make her think that the two of you know each other
somehow (obviously she can’t remember you:) and hope for another chance meeting (when she
hopefully still vaguely remembers you:). A modification of this tactic (which seems to make some more sense) – just say
“Hi” to any girl you like. Yes, any girl and anywhere – the commuter, the
street, the airport, the corridor, the cafeteria. Some won’t answer (maybe you greeted her
too late for her to notice you), some answer, some smile and answer (see also Eye contact
experiment), some answer, smile and stop (!) to initiate conversation with you (most
probably about how come you know her when she doesn’t seem to be able to remember you from
anywhere:). The ones that you have exchanged “Hi”-s with (without ever being introduced
to each other or having actually approached her) are the best to use the “We already
know each other” tactic with. The next time you meet, just start in the middle, like
with an old friend, comment on something/anything etc, she responds and BOOM – you’re
acquintances! Ok, so that’s still a long way from having her naked body between your sheets – but
you’ve made a start and you’re already well on your way:) See also:
Eye contact experiment
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