Psychological studies show that casual touching during a friendly conversation causes
people to remember the conversation more fondly after the fact. The combination of kino with social proof is dynamite. Touch one girl and the other
girls seeing this think its normal or even “good” to be touchy-feely with you:).
Now you can quite naturally move on to touching those other girls and so forth:). ASF: “It’s quite simple – hug them, touch their hand sporadically and in A NON
THREATENING WAY, that is, not like the desperate pervert we all are:) So the idea is, you
hide completely the interest you might have AND at the same time you act really
touchy/huggish. The problem is – you have to start this early in the “friend”
relationship, it has to seem natural, or otherwise she’ll wonder “what the fuck is he
doing lately?”:) Once you’ve developed that kind of flirtatious friendship, it’s easy
to spawn other such ‘friendships’ with other women: they will see you being close to
another woman, and I think the key here is that, it probably does not trigger as much
jealousy as it makes them (the “new” ones) feel comfortable — they see another
woman being touched by you in a non-threatening way, and, blam, social-proof, it becomes a
‘proof’ to them that it’s normal for you to touch them in turn… “ ASF: “Ok, I use this all the time now. TOUCH HER!!! It doesn’t matter if you just
met her. Hold her hand, rub her arm, her elbow her back, her shoulders, her hair, her
face. TOUCH HER !!!” ASF:
1. PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
2. PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
3. One more time: PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU !!! If you do this you will be
able to better gauge if you have the appropriate rapport to invite a kiss. If her body
seems to respond to the non-sexual touching then get gradually more sexual. For women some
areas of the body outside of the primary erogenous zones are intimate: Palms, inside the
elbow, ear lobes, cheeks, the hips were the waist meets the hips, between the fingers….
4. Last thing: PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!! Do the things that lovers do – brush off “something” that’s stuck in
her hair, gently stroke her cheek pretending to wipe off an eyelash etc. These are the
types of things lovers do and by doing them, you will make her feel (doesn’t even matter
if only subconsciously) like you were her lover. Plus you’ll get “innocent” yet
pleasurable kino🙂 Kino as soon as you meet a girl. Meeting someone for the first time is an
excellent chance for starting kino – shaking hands when exchanging names is a tradition of
many cultures and cultures. But make sure you hold on to her hand longer than expected,
long enough for you to enjoy it and her to notice, if not you enjoying it but at least you
not letting go as quickly as people usually do. When meeting girls you already know, shaking hands might seem strange, so giving some
sort of a hug is the way to go. You don’t need to fall all over her to give her a hug
(which depending on the situation might even make you look like a fool or a pervert or
make her embarrassed instead of having her enjoy it too:), a hug can also be putting your
arm around her waist or shoulders when standing to her left or right and pulling her
closer for a moment, or taking her hand for a moment (but not shaking it), or her elbow,
or arm etc. Daniel, ASF: “KINO on the arm/hand as soon as you say hi to show her you
are a sexual being.” Set the mood of the date from the start. When going on a
date/get-together, establish the mood immediately. You can of course change the mood from
“polite and calm” to “warm and friendly” to “aroused and
sweaty” during the course of the meeting, but why go the hard way, if you can jump
right into “warm and friendly” or beyond in the first place. It is best to have
acting enthusiastic upon meeting the girl to have agreed upon previously (most probably
when you set up a meeting on the phone, see Refining the close in
Closing for more information). But even without that, you can be all smiles when you meet
her, give her a big hug right away, try to take and hold her hand all the way to whereever
it is that you’ll be going and watch her change from slightly nervous to happy, smiling,
starry-eyed and glowing all over:) And remember – enthusiasm is contageous:) Foot-flirting. You’ve all seen it done in the movies:) The foot looses the shoe
and the woman is stroking the man with her bare foot or vice versa. Corny you say:)? A
cliche maybe:)? Try it and then see what you think:) am, ASF: “[in response to
“you can’t kino sitting across the table”] Actually, you _can_ kino when you are
sitting across from the target. Just use your feet! Of course this requires a small table,
but this also helps to set up an intimate atmoshpere (remember candles etc.). Touch her
feet “occasionally” with your own under the table, say something like “tee
hee, you are foot-flirtin’ with me?” in a joking way. Look her deepely in the eyes
while doing this, and continue using your feet. Do it the right way and at the right time
with a chick in the right mood, and voila! You can actually proceed to rubbing each
other’s crotches with your toes under the table, then say “my bed is that way”
and BANG! You’re IN!” “Can’t hear you:)”. LordGaeden, ASF: “Try this: If she says
something, lean forward as if you aren’t hearing her very well, and touch her (arm or
back). Then lean back again and answer. Are there any easy clues as to when is the right
time to go kino? The clue is when it’s possible (ie, she’s within in range)”. Kino is the difference between getting and not getting the girl. It is the
saving grace of even the otherwise doomed “nice guy” approach. And in some
instances, being the “nice guy” together with using kino can even be quite
effective. Here’s why: the success of kino depends on whether the girl perceives you and
your touch as a threat to her or not. You can be a rough and tough guy (I try to avoid the
word “jerk” as it is not really quite reprsesentative of what the opposite of
“nice guy” actually is) and still have the girl feel you are not a threat to her
speficically, thus initiating kino will be easy. A nice guy usually just has an easier
time having girls feel he is not a threat to them. Usually though, that is also his
undoing, as he is consequently perceived as weak, neutral and non-sexual, all of which are
major turn-offs for girls. But here is where the saving grace of kino steps in. You are
safe, so touching and hugging with you is… well, also safe. However, before she knows it
– touching and hugging with you moves from feeling pretty good to quite exciting to really
electrifying until all that good, safe and friendly physical contact with you is going to
make her wonder: “If it feels so good just to touch with him, why on earth not do
more? I wonder what that would be like?”. Which is not to say that being the
“nice guy” is the way to go. This was simply meant to illustrate the strength of
kinesthetics – it even works for the “nice guy”:) So remember – kino really is
the difference between getting and not getting the girl. The protective gesture. Maxim (http://maximmag.com): “In a crowded bar, if
people are walking by and pushing you, there’s a way a guy can put his arm around
you—not actually touching you, but behind your back so he’s sort of keeping you
from getting shoved. A man doesn’t need to pick a fight with some guy who
accidentally steps on my toes, but it’s nice if he’s protective. —Kris, 27,
Los Angeles” |  |
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