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What Do You Want?
by Playboy
of Cutting Edge Image Consultants
February 7th, 2006
It is one thing to generate attraction in a woman with lines and gimmicks. It is quite another to understand how to be an attractive man. Master this, and you guarantee long-term success with women.
So many guys who come to us for advice with women and dating all say the same things:
“I want to have choice with women”
“I am sick and tired of being alone”
“I can get women, just not the ones I want”
“I feel empty when I don't have a girl with me”
“I am just unhappy, and I figure if I could get a girlfriend, that would fix it”
These are all valid and very common things for a guy who struggles with women to say. However, there is one big thing that most of these guys lack, and that is simply – they don't know what they want.
I know, you are probably saying (maybe even aloud at the computer screen) – “I know what I want, I just told you that I want a girlfriend!”
The key to knowing what you want, is to start with yourself. Nothing outside of you is going to complete you!
Let me be honest with you, when I first got involved in learning the very valuable material which exists for meeting women, I really wanted to just be able to go out on any given night, and get laid. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this, and I got to be incredibly good at it.
The problem is, it didn't fix the problem. I still felt a great deal of emptiness, and secretly knew that I wasn't really meeting the potential I knew I had.
It was a “game” for sure, but I was only barely playing it, and nowhere close to the end zone.
What became clear to me was that I really didn't know what I wanted.
I needed to understand both what kind of dating lifestyle I wanted, and then, what kind of woman (or women) I saw participating in this lifestyle with me.
So, right now, ask yourself… what dating lifestyle are you looking for? What do you want out of your relationships with women?
Do I want to get laid tonight.
Do I want the power of choice in meeting women.
Do I want to meet really hot women whenever I want.
Do I want to find a girlfriend that I can settle down with, and fall in love (gasp).
Do I want to get married.
Do I want ALL OF THESE!
What is it guys? Any of these are viable choices. The one thing that is indisputable, from which there is no escape, is that you have to start with you first.
Now that you know what lifestyle you want to build, lets see what kind of woman will fit into this lifestyle. Again, power comes from knowing what you want. So, let’s be specific about the kind of woman you see yourself with.
As an exercise, take out a pen and paper and list the aspects that you desire in a woman. Then, write down the aspects that you definitely do NOT desire – a list of what turns you off.
From this, you now have a much stronger sense of what lifestyle you desire, and then, the kind of women you want to be a part of this lifestyle. This exercise always yields incredible results, as you now have actual information to drive you forward.
You have to know what you want before you can choose who you wish to be with.
I hope this helps you gain clarity. Also, as a caveat, it is important that you first be honest with yourself about what you are seeking. It is also important that you be honest with the women you become involved with. Nothing leads to bad karma like masquerading as husband material when all you are looking for is sex.
Be honest with yourself and with others, and you’ll get what you want. You can count on that.
Good luck,
Playboy
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