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Get Into Her GENES! – Casual Sex
by Ray Devans
of The Art of the Pickup
March 19th, 2007
Welcome to another installment of “Get Into Her Genes!”
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It is the goal of almost every red blooded man on this planet to get into the jeans of the sexiest women he can. But what few of them realize is that you have to actually first get into their GENES! What do I mean by this? I mean that you have to understand some facts that science has uncovered that will help you with your quest. Evolutionary psychology and genetics have uncovered many facts which are essential to understanding women.
Luckily for you, I have read more than my fair share of books on the subject, so in this and future newsletters under this title, I am going to give you just a few snippets of the knowledge I have gained.
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Today we will be discussing some interesting facts that have to do with casual sex. In particular, we want to look at things that will help you understand in what cases a woman might be more open to casual sex.
The first thing to be aware of is that while society tries to keep people from having casual sex, our very biology proves that throughout history casual sex has been an evolutional adaptation that human males have underwent to become more successful in reproducing. The way evolutionary biologists know this is by comparing the size of human testicles to those of primates.
I will spare you the full details, but it turns that scientists have basically proved that humans are adapted for casual sex because of a phenomenon called sperm competition. When casual sex is more likely in a species, the testicles of the males grow larger so their sperm can compete against the sperm of other males. In looking at primates, it turns out that chimpanzees have comparatively huge balls, because they are not at all monogamous, but gorillas have super small balls because they dominate their females and have no sperm competition. Humans are in the middle, suggesting that we have adapted both strategies of monogamy and casual sex.
OK, so now you know that casual sex is a fact of life and it is scientifically proven that humans have been doing it for a long time, you don’t have to be ashamed of it. (You also know that you can honestly say that you have bigger balls than a gorilla!) So now that we know all this, let’s look at some random facts that might help you in the pursuit of more casual sex.
One simple time women are more prone to give in to the desire for casual sex or sex outside a relationship is when they are ovulating, that is roughly 2 or 3 weeks after their period ends.
A study of British women cited in the book “The Evolution of Desire” by David M. Buss (which I highly recommend reading), found that among women who were having affairs were most likely to do so when they were ovulating. Other studies indicate that ovulating women are more likely to dress with flashier jewelry and more provocatively during ovulation. So while it is impossible to know when a woman is ovulating without asking when she had her last period, you can still take advantage of this knowledge by noticing if a woman dresses more provocatively than usual.
It is also a reason never to give up immediately if a woman doesn’t return your calls the first time. Trying again once a week for 4 weeks could improve your chances if for no other reason that she might be ovulating. Of course, if you learn the techniques in “The Art of the Pickup»” DVD you can consistently create enough attraction that women will want to answer the very first time you call.
Another study mentioned in the book cites that women consider men more attractive at closing time in night clubs, on average rating them a 5.5 at 9 o’clock but up to 6.5 at midnight. So your chances go up as the night goes on, hang in there, you gain a point every three hours!
Also of interest is the idea that some women will go through periods in their lives when they are more likely to have multiple partners as they try to figure out just how good of a man they can attract. The book calls this “self assessment of desirability”. Just because a woman may be gorgeous doesn’t mean she yet has the confidence to match her looks. Obviously this happens more with younger women than with older women.
How about a few random things:
-women whose father’s were not around during their childhood are more likely to have many partners
-women who smoke are also more likely to engage in casual sex
-a Japanese book I once read even went so far to suggest that women who stand with their toes facing outward are more open to casual sex
In societies where women are less dependent on men for resources, they are more likely to have casual sex. Sweden was mentioned as such a society. But times of great economic conditions in just about any country can lead to this phenomenon. The bubble economy of Japan in the 1990’s led to a virtual sexual revolution in Japan, with women dancing panty-less in bars like Juliana’s. If you were young and aware of this fact back then, becoming an English teacher in Japan could have been a great time.
There are many more little facts that you can learn that might help you if you are pursuing casual relations. Some of them will be things that you might not even be aware of on a conscious level. The more women you meet and interact with the more you will just “know” when the signs are right. In the meantime, a good start towards knowing these types of things is to check out “The Art of the Pickup»” DVDs.
Unraveling the genetic code,
Ray Devans
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