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Honest Hedonistic Kissing
by Sebastian Drake
of theApproach
July 8th, 2006
Being consistent about what role you want a woman in your life will make it easier for her to accept and ensure that there's far less drama for you to sort out. If she knows from the start that you and she will have a casual relationship, she'll be far more accepting of that role as time passes.
Obviously you do this through your words. But you might give her the wrong impression even if you tell her verbally, "I'm not ready for a relationship" or something along those lines - Many men say things like these, then go on to get into committed relationships.
If you want a really casual relationship - the kind where you can sleep with her friends without her minding - then you need to make it clear on all levels that that's what you have. The verbal aspect is easy to understand - You don't tell her she's your girlfriend, or the only one for you, or talk about marriage.
You need to also refrain from doing "exclusive girlfriend activities". Don't do dinner-and-a-movie, go to weddings, or do other similarly girlfriend-type things. Avoid introducing her to your parents, and meeting hers.
These are also fairly easy to understand - If you want a casual relationship, you should keep it... casual. The words should be those of a friend, not of a soulmate. The dates should be friendly, laid back activities.
Getting honest in your words can be done. Good dates can be chosen. Then, there's one last piece that is one of the most critical for honesty in the relationship - The way you get physical with her.
If you want a true casual relationship, you should make all of your physicality very hedonistic and passionate. Don't be gentle and "make love". This is especially true with kissing. If you want an honest, casual relationship, make sure you don't lead her on with how you kiss her. If you frequently kiss her softly, tenderly, and gently, share little smooches, and other "girlfriend kisses" - she's far more likely to start thinking of herself as your girlfriend and wanting to be your girlfriend.
Instead, limit the kissing you do. Don't kiss much in public, don't kiss a lot in general. When you kiss in the bedroom, make them deep, hedonistic kisses. Be dominant and strong, and don't kiss her the way you would a woman whom you want to marry. If you kiss her softly and gently, you're sending her mixed messages. Keep your kissing hot, heavy, and hedonistic if you want less expectations.
Remember: You can be honest with your words, but lie with your kisses. Keep your kisses true if you want to keep the drama down.
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