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Understanding the Life of a Beautiful Girl
by Sebastian Drake
of theApproach
August 6th, 2006
you're a curiousity, a novelty, and everyone is either jealous of
you or wants you for their own gain.
When you return a look, their eyes quickly dart away.
People are nervous when speaking to you.
And only the most prideless, desperate people engage you in
conversation.
You look at the decent people, thinking it'd be nice to have a
friend or lover among them.
Just someone being kind and unawed would be magnificent.
But it doesn't happen.
So you get a bit standoffish, and soon enough, you're not looking
at people as you pass by, your head high in the air in an "I'm
better than you" way.
But deep down, it's a bit lonely. You want someone you can relate
to. You see people less beautiful than you laughing with people
you'd like to be friends with or date.
You see people who are kind of awkward with people who you'd like
to have as your own. And these couples - they look at you when you
look away from them, and you know they are.
Welcome to the life of a beautiful woman, that I understand quite
profoundly now that I'm in the People's Republic of China. The
isolation from other people by being seen as having status
automatically is not as cool as one would think.
And thankfully I've got communications skills to break through and
start talking to people. But you know the only people who approach
me?
People street-hawking useless junk.
LOTS of girls look at me as I pass. None talk to me.
And so it is with beautiful women. Men stare at them desirously,
women stare at them enviously.
The lonliest girl I ever dated was a 6'0 model who was constantly
dressed head to toe in Gucci and Prada. She was in all ways elite,
but after I got to know her I found out she hadn't had a boyfriend
in three years (she was 26).
Wow. I understand it now - Women want men who are confident and
capable to talk to them, to make friends with them, to make them
smile and laugh.
They're lonely. And as clueless as a man might feel looking at a
woman like this, the women are just wishing, praying that someone
would become their friend.
Asia is fun though. I shot an automatic crossbow at a fair
yesterday, and the culture here is crazy. It's a lot like a mix
between a sci-fi movie and the wild west. The driving in particular
astounds me - There is no regard paid to traffic lights or
pedestrians, people regularly speed and drive on the wrong side of
the road, and motorcycles on sidewalks is not uncommon.
As for those lonely beautiful girls? Get to it!
Until next time,
Sebastian
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