mASF post by "London PUA"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, May 5, 2004Naturalness
“I look around, I look around and I see many, many new things, which means you
guys have been breaking the first rule of the club: don’t make shit so
complicated!”
Ok I am just joking around!
- But in truth their are so many concepts. After PAIMAI we have DLV’s, DHV’s,
buying tempreture, IVD’s. This is on top of working with all the basic concepts
we first learn like AFC, PUA, IOI, AI and Oneitis.
Ever get the feeling that your head is swirling from this stuff? and its
supposed to be fun!
The crazy truth is though the game is actually really fun, I have spent many a
fun night sarging a 2-set in Burger King and flirting with the cute Asian chick
who works at my bank. Indeed sometimes when you feel frustrated with your
development, it can be because your not playing the game enough.
Any way the point of this post is that sometimes with all these concepts and
ideas and methods and systems and whatnot. When we are sarging we sometimes
forget to BE NATURAL. Behave as though what we are doing is completely normal.
When you approach a chick in a club or on a train or whatever it must seem and
BE completely natural.
Think about it from another perspective, imagine your in club chilling with
your friend and some chick comes up to you ands starts talking about Elvis’s
hair. At first you are amused at the originality and wackiness of the whole
thing, but as you converse with the chick you begin to notice something isn’t
quite right, she seems distracted like she’s thinking about something else,
like she’s nervous or worried about something, she keeps looking around, she
then asks you if you have been “cubed”? your thinking this is a bit crazy but
you enjoy the entertainment. You have fun but its like this chick isn’t really
in the interaction, after you do the cube, their is a bit of silence as you see
what the chick will do next, she looks at you not knowing what to say and says
“anyway have a good night” and walks away.
Now imagine this situation – again your at a club chilling with a mate, and
this chick comes over, she looks happy, calm, cool, centred, she looks like
she’s having a very cool night out, it looks like she’s walking to the bar, but
she stops and looks over her shoulder at you and says something about Elvis’s
hair, you don’t understand it properly, but it doesn’t matter, it doesn’t
matter what she says, she just seem like a cool person. You talk for a while
about hairstyles, which leads you to fashion, people and then personality, she
asks you if you know about the cube, you say no, she does it, and you don’t
know how real it is, but it was very fun. She says she has to go to the bar but
she “wants your number cause you seem cool”. And walks away.
That is the difference between being unnatural and being natural
To run game all we have to do is know that we are the prize, know that we are
cool, and sprinkle in the tactics. Sprinkle them into he conversation. Don’t
sprinkle a conversation into a bunch of gimmicks. And enjoy it, enjoy meeting
another person.
Ok to sum up: while sarging make everything you do natural, whether your an
alpha bad boy, or a wandering poet, do what you do - but do it naturally.
I hope I made sense.
Comments of all types always appreciated.
LONDON PUA
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