mASF post by "jack_tripper" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, November 11, 2003One thing that being buff does help with is self-esteem in clubs, mainly when
confronted with AMOGs. If you're tall and well built, few guys will try to
interfere with your game. I guess you can't do anything about height, but
putting on some muscle will at least make you physically attractive. I
personally noticed a lot of difference, back 6 years ago when I started
lifting. Chicks really dig the pecs :)
On 11/6/03 7:56:00 PM, aceofhearts wrote: >A lot of you guys advocate >working out for all aspiring >PUAs. I've lifted for about >three years ago as an AFC >after 23 years of being thin; >I was 5'8" and 135 pounds. >The quick gains in strength >and size made me feel better >about my body; I was getting >bigger and stronger every day. > >At this point I'm doing pretty >good and am probably nearing >genetic potentials without >drugs: 160 pounds of lean >muscle, and I bench 260, squat >315, and deadlift 335 despite >a genetic spine problem. I >look great in tight clothes. >But honestly, I don't feel >like being buff helps me in >PU. I virtually never get >IOIs based on my body, and of >girls that I have successfully >attracted or PUed, they >virtually never compliment it. >I get more compliments on my >shaved head, my clothes/boots, >and my camera. Even this girl >I PUed in Taiwan, who calls me >every week long-distance and >told me the other day that "I >don't go clubbing after I meet >you because I think it >unlikely that I meet man as >good as you in club again" >only mentioned my body in >passing, and she saw plenty of >it when I was there. > >Anyway, this isn't a big deal >to me, but I was reading >TokyoPUA's archive the other >day and he said that working >out alone made him go from AFC >--> PUA. I thought, is this >for real? Then I realized >that some other guys on here >suggest it as being critical >to PU. I honestly work out >for me, not for chicks. >Actually I'm not even sure if >I work out for me, it's more >of a habit at this point. I >don't seem to get the big >testosterone boost that >everyone talks about, in fact >working out doesn't really >change my mental state at all. > >So out of curiosity, do those >of you who lift obsessively >find that it helps your PU >very much? I think it's made >very little difference to me, >even though I can't imagine >living as an excessively >skinny or fat guy. > >-aceofhearts
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