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posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2003I'm posting this in regards to a common thing I see around here that's a TRAP
endless amounts of people fall into.
We all have this perception of the ALPHA guy, the BAD BOY, the DON WON, the
BETA man, the WARRIOR and so on...
The key is REALIZING that these are just ideals and stereotypes. If you buy
into them you will put your head up your ass. There are two specific
stereotypes that belong to asf. The AFC and the PUA. Ask different people what
they think a PUA is around here and what an AFC is around here and you'll get a
range of opinions. It's because people have different perceptions on what an
AFC and a PUA is.
Some will say AFCs never get laid. Some will say they do. Some will say a PUA
is an alpha guy. Etc...
See what's going on here?
The fact of the matter is there is no 100% alpha guy. There is no 100% beta
guy. There is no 100% bad boy. There is no 100% free-spirit. There is no 100%
charmer. And there is no 100% nice guy. They ONLY exist in people's minds. Same
goes with the AFC and the PUA.
The reality is every guy is a UNIQUE MIXTURE of these things and more. You are
a unique mixture.
The thing is NOT to box yourself in here. There is no 100% alpha guy in
existence. Period. What happens is somebody percieves a few strong alpha traits
right off the bat in someone and they instantly percieve them as 100% alpha.
They are not aware of what they are doing here. Can you see it?
This is one of the keys in realization to being yourself here, it takes
understanding your mind.
You go out there wanting to be this ALPHA ideal for women you will put on a
mask and shove your head straight up your ass because there is NO 100% ALPHA!
It's a fantasy people create and nothing more. Men and women alike. Women for
example place their unique perceptions of ideal guys in romance novels.
The reality is guys with practically every range and variation of
characteristics get laid by beautiful women.
Box yourself into thinking only alpha guys get hot chicks and try to act alpha,
you will be reaching for the sky and never touching it. And if you do happen to
get laid thinking you were alpha you will stick your head up your ass further.
(Ever think why some of the guys around here have such monsterous egos...ahem)
Be congruent with yourself. Do not play into some fantasy in your head and let
it rule you. Be congruent with yourself. Leave it to the bitches to see you as
some alpha guy, or some don won, or some charming nice guy and so on and be
just the way you are. You can not control what other people think, you can only
control what you think and CHOOSE not to buy into all the bullshit programming
that surrounds you.
All this AFC, PUA, ALPHA, BETA and so on is nothing more than a big limiting
belief structure.
Labels and fantasies rule people's minds. If you don't let them rule yours, you
will free your mind and discover a different world out there... It's humoring.
mmasters
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