mASF post by "ajhorst"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005On 8/7/05 5:00:00 AM, napkin wrote:
>This was not easy. In my 18
>months of sarging, I've had
>to:
>- Open 1300 sets
Wow, I mean WOW. It seems like you were more concerned with actually being able
to walk up to females and start a conversation than actually advancing. I
believe that ANYONE can walk up to 1300 sets and simply say, “You wanna fuck,”
with terrible voice tone and bl, and still get laid a couple of times. You
spent way too much energy working on the approach…now you need to work on the
next levels of the game.
>- Take 2 expensive seminars
I have the feeling that you are a lot like me when I first started learning the
game. I felt like I had to know EVERYTHING, and if I read just one more e-book,
or listened to one more program, that my AFCness would disappear. I didn’t
really start progressing until I practiced in the field myself. After learning
the basics (which you can do for free), you will learn much more out in the
field than through a seminar. I can see that you are practicing out in the
field, which is great.
>- Maintain a hidden
>double-life from my friends
>and family
Hmmm, something tells me that you feel GUILTY about being involved in the
pickup seen. Having a lot of women in your life is nothing to be ashamed of,
and there is no reason to hide that from your friends and family. Maybe GUILT
is what has been holding you back.
>- Get into 3 fistfights
I feel you there. When I started out, I got into a few fights myself.
Understand that there are many ways to avoid fights. Also, many of the “AMOG”
techniques on this board are too aggressive IMO.
>It's been incredibly
>stressful, but I feel like a
>different person today. I feel
>like an enormous weight has
>been lifted from my chest.
I always have respect for someone that identifies something missing in their
life, and learns how to fix it. However, I do feel than you spent way more
energy than needed learning the game.
>It'll probably be a few more
>months till I get my first
>cold-approach lay. So don't
>give up. It takes time.
If you spend as much energy on getting to the next level as you did on
approaching 1300 sets, you will definitely get there. It looks like you finally
got over your first plateau. Great job, and keep it up.
-AJ
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