mASF post by "JT47319"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, May 5, 2005According to my one and a half year of experience so far in the field (those
situations I have not encountered, I have so noted)...
On 5/6/05 3:19:00 AM, TylerDurden wrote:
>1) You are talking to three
>girls at a table. You like
>the one furthest in. They
>like you, but the girl you
>want probably wouldn't jump
>out from her seat to talk to
>you yet. How do you get her
>to come talk to you?
Field Tested: Whenever I engage a seated set, I physically and verbally
dominant the table. I always pull up a chair and sit down with them after a few
minutes. At the point where I have decided to engage my target, I will get up
and firmly (but gently) push the girls apart via the shoulder or the knee. I
may verbally articulate, "I want to tell you something..."
All this is intended to be an isolation move and will position my BL so that it
faces her fully. If she is only partially reciprocating, again I will gently
(but firmly) turn both her body, knees, and face to me. Assuming that I have
established a modicum of attraction, she will respond willingly or at least try
it out for a little bit. This serves to give the other girls notice as to whom
I have chosen and that the girl also has chosen me. The girls are usually
socially savvy enough to recognize the interest (via our BL, kinoing, eye
contact, etc) to disengage from us and talk amongst themselves.
>2) You're talking to a group
>of girls, and they are all in
>love with you. If you ask one
>for her phone number the
>others might get upset. What
>do you do?
Field Tested: I *ALWAYS* choose a target. Always. Even if it turns out that her
attraction isn't as high as one of her girlfriends, after opening a set, I
always choose one girl and subcommunicate it to all the other girls. Remaining
in a set and engaging the entire set for hours is (IMO) a waste of time. This
one I've learned from hard experience. Better to have chosen (even if it's a
mistake) then remain as the "entertaining" guy.
Hypothetical: "You girls are fun, let's kick it some time" and hand one of the
girls my phone or have them program my number in.
>3) You are gaming a 2set with
>a wing. Your girl wants to
>venue change with you, but
>your wing's girl does not.
>What do you do?
Field Tested #1: I will tell my girl that her girl is acting weird and needs to
get on the same page. Assuming that I've followed my own answer to Question #1,
we've established attraction and connection and she will use social/peer
pressure to convince/coerce her girl to come along even if she doesn't want to.
Field Tested #2: I will physically pick up my girl and walk off. Again,
assuming that my girl has high interest in me, she will LOVE this. Of course, I
won't leave her friend behind, but she will be forced to follow where hopefully
my girl will again convince her to follow along.
AMOG Tactic: I will also do this to random AMOGs. I will pick up the girl and
walk off. The guys are usually too stunned to do anything and again, the girls
love it.
>4) You're gaming a group of
>girls, and one of the girls
>gets upset. Really upset.
>She won't calm down, and her
>friends want to leave. What
>do you do?
Hypothetical: I've never encountered this phenomenom. I've never actually
pissed off or made a girl cry hard enough to encounter this. Odds are, unless
my target has conveyed high interest in me, I would not bother to salvage the
set.
>5) You're gaming a girl and
>she's attracted. You're about
>a minute and a half in, and
>her friend is freaking out
>because her mom has arrived to
>pick them both up. She's
>leaving with her friend, and
>you want her phone number but
>know its too early and it will
>be a weak close. What do ou
>do?
Field Tested: Again, I will physically pick her up to isolate her quickly and
then #-close. I won't move away so far as to freak out the friend, but
establish a quick isolation and make her remember our minute long interaction.
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