mASF post by "Magnus"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, January 1, 2005Friday afternoon and I decide to hit up London. SmoothGuy69 (guitar guy) is
up for it, and I manage to persuade NextLevelUp to get on a train to London
instead of home on his way back from work. Badboy and Cortez are in town
holding a workshop, and his students include Newcastle Jon who I met on road
trip. It looks to be shaping up for an awesome weekend with awesome guys.
So NLU and I book into the Generator, which is The Place To Stay in London.
NextLevelUp got a sameday there last time, and sheriff got laid there
Saturday night with a kiwi that he and NLU brought out with us on the
saturday night.
Mezzan66 joined us on the Friday night, and we hooked up with Badboy and
Cortez in On Anon on Saturday night, they were ably assisted by Jolly PUA.
I was also pleased to finally meet pua_london who seems to be crazier than
me and at the same time more alpha. Saturday afternoon we met up with two
LSS guys in Camden, whose nicks I don't know. We hung with SmoothGuy69 (the
guitar guy) and Paul M Sunday afternoon too.
I'd heard Badboy had a strong frame but I was still surprised. He has an
awesome presence and was very open and friendly. Cortez has a surprisingly
different style, but again has a strong frame and was very articulate
chatting to us in between AMOGging the students. Yes, you read that
right... at first I had my doubts, but this was fucking incredible to watch,
and clearly sharpened the students skills. Aside from style, the obvious
difference between an RSD and Badboy workshop was that the instructors would
actively go in to AMOG students in set, to deliberately make it difficult
for them. Badboy encouraged us to go in and blow students out, and I was
well impressed in that the students maintained their sets. This is a great
way to strengthen the students frame and given them practice and sucking
girls in, and it showed.
Anyway, this isn't a review, the rest of this FR is about a chick I talked
to on Friday night. I've been looking forward to meeting the Croatian guys
for a while, as their styles of PU and of teaching it are very different to
the RSD guys. I was glad to broaden my perspectives, and it strengthened my
belief that guys should expose themselves to as many different styles as
possible in order to form their own style and method.
Friday...
NLU and I invited F, a cool German guy from our dorm in the Generator along
with us. He kind of noticed we were chatty with random women on the tube...
and was not oblivious that our chatting skills were slightly above
average... he had natural ability enough in the club, as you will read...
Mezzan66 joined us in Leicester Square, and him and NLU opened a chick who
turned out to be accompanied by Josh from the LSS!
There were probably half a dozen sets of varying degrees of quality, before
I spotted F chatting up a fairly cute girl by the bar. I joined him to see
if she had any nice friends, she had two. One approached me but was pretty
bitchy until I teased her, then this AMOG appears who seems threatening
until I tell him I like his t-shirt. He basically tells me to fuck off, the
chick is his. So I tell him "NO MAN, I said I like your t-shirt" and patted
him on the shoulder and asked him where he got it. Then I sarged his chick
some more and he didn't really know what to do. These girls were total
player girls. His chick preferred him still, so told her friend to talk to
me instead. Her friend starts off hostile but I square up to her and tease
her about pretty much everything that came to mind.
So now F is talking to his chick, the AMOG is talking to his chick, and I'm
talking to the third girl in the set. They were all pretty cute, well
dressed with cute faces, but slightly less anorexic looking that I prefer.
Hot, nonetheless.
This was yet another PU that totally followed my three-phase model, which I
am now evangelising like a bitch to anyone who asks. Watch out for my
entire method appearing on Bristol Lair soon, for just $99.95.
Attact: I tease her with my usual stock for American chicks, Illegal Wars
and Weak Dollars. She qualifies her entire country to me about the exchange
rate. We've been squaring up to each other for most of this, our faces so
close at one point she accidentally scraped her teeth on my nose. I was
also poking her in the stomach playfully. I neg her that I didn't fancy her
at first, I was only talking to her to stop her dragging her friend away
from my friend. She said she was doing the same!
Qualify: After a bit more banter I start telling her I think she's cool and
cold read her on being artistic. We move over to lean on the bar behind F &
his chick, where I can press my leg against hers and put my arm around her.
Connect: We talk about her art and my novel, and how we both have creative
stuff in common. She's not been inspired for a few months, I've sort of had
writers block on my novel, etc. Talk about America and god knows what else,
and amp up the kino. When things started to get hot though, she showed me
her engagement ring!
I was pretty surprised for a moment, but ploughed through it after a few
seconds of shock. I have a pretty good Single-Detector, and this girl was
broadcasting singleness on all wavelengths. Earlier I'd told F not to
bother approaching two girls on the dancefloor, and sure enough a minute
later they were stuck to their boyfriends like glue. I can really trust
this sense now, and I knew she wasn't entirely attached... I knew it was
just as possible that she was wearing a different ring on that finger for
fun, unhappy in her relationship, or whatever. So, carry on regardless.
Two steps forward, one step back. When she holds back on the
physical/sexual connection, work on connecting with her emotionally or in
another way...
She talks about how her housemates are allowed to do what they want, etc. I
rather expertly (if I do say so myself) played this up in her mind without
being obvious about it, and used the more subtle boyfriend destroyers
(overqualifying him, playing on her slight frustration).
She gets really horny. She threatened to walk when I repeatedly said I
wouldn't touch the small of her back and then did, so I did stop, and
instead tried something a sex writer had told me about, basically focusing
energy on my palm chakra into her first chakra - holding my hand behind the
small of her back for those of you who don't believe in that shit.
Eventually however, she decides it's too much. She admits she wants to kiss
me, but would feel bad going home to her fiance afterwards. I tell her I
respect that decision, but make it clear to her that that is not due to true
love - she has just logically realised that kissing me would cause her
emotional trauma later, and I agree with her. She physically pushes herself
away from me and runs off. The bar staff nod at me and I shrug.
I feel bad for about a second and a half... and then go and find my friend
F, who has intra-venue-changed his chick to a darker area. But my chick is
looking for the same couple, so I turn round and there she is. She tries to
avoid me so I make a big show of giving her a wide berth... but then decide
to say something to her "Listen... I really want to say something... I
totally respect what you just did. My friends don't believe that girls like
you exist, but I guess I want to marry one one day, so it's cool, really. I
definitely think that sooner or later you're gonna realise that you don't
want to get married yet, and there'll be a guy just like me, but... I don't
wanna be that guy." One hell of a rapport smacker... Then I walk way, and
get a tug on my arm...
She wants to know what I mean by "my friends don't believe girls like her
don't exist". So of course, I tell her all about the seduction scene.
She venue changes me somewhere quieter so we can talk properly without
touching so much, but of course we still sit pretty intimately, and I
repeatedly tell her I can't take it when she touches me, because it turns me
on. Her friend comes along a couple of times to ask if she's ok, and she
gets rid of her. The AMOG gives me the thumbs up, and I tell him he owes me
drinks because I got the chick with the fiance.
As we're talking about the nature of women, I realise that if 'girls like
her' DO exist... then she isn't one of them. I accidentally-on-purpose
touch her breasts... no response. But when I tell her to shush with a
finger to her lips, she tells me off. "oh, so it's ok to touch your breasts
but not your lips?" and she says yes, because lips are more sensitive. She
touches her fingers to my lips and says "see?" but I shrug. So she licks
her finger, and touches it to my lips again. I realise that if she'll do
that, I can probably kiss her, and do so. With lots of tongue.
She tells me "you've just taken the last part of my singleness" and runs
away again. In hanging around outside while the other two guys get their
girl's numbers, she point-blank refuses, but she does kiss a bit more, and
says all sorts of nice things, which I never get tired of hearing.
Girls are awesome.
Magnus
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