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mASF post by "Jamster"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005On 7/26/05 7:24:00 PM, SweetP wrote:
>
>The problem with the “salsa
>hobbyist” environment is that
>it’s completely commonplace
>for guys to do cold approaches
>by asking a girl to dance.
>Even the most AFC guys do it.
>So you going up to a girl and
>asking her for a dance will
>probably not even register on
>her
>“this-guy-might-be-a-potential
>-mate” radar. Instead, you
>run the risk of getting
>slotted into the
>“he’s-a-nice-guy-and-a-good-da
>nce-partner” category.
SweetP has the word here.
In a dance environment, asking someone to dance is not opening. So open
first. Start talking.
Easier said than done in one of those environments, but it's key.
Then /maybe\ ask them to dance - but not because the conversation gets awkward.
If it's awkward, then walk away or persist just like you would in a club.
Jamster Geezer
"If you can't be graceful, fake it."
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