mASF post by "Cascade"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, November 11, 2004Bootcamp Week 3 Assignments!
Start a PU journal and begin to fill it;
Already have a PU journal which I regulary write in.
Figure out where you are in the stages of learning;
Looking at the 9 levels of mastery
(http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/9levels.shtml) , I would put myself in
the level GPUA-2 Recovering Average Frustrated Chump, though many of the points
in GPUA-3 apply to me so I am not far away from there. From the GPUA-3 list I
am missing;
"Is approaching as many women as he can" - I do usually between 20 and 40
approaches a week but it's certainly not 'as many as I can', ie I do quite a
few approaches but pass on a lot of sets due to some excuse or other.
"Is contact closing regularly and finally understands the flake
dichotomy....and deals with it properly when he does encounter it." - I am
contact closing regularly though not massively (3-5 numbers a week usually),
but the flake thing I definitely need to work on as you will know if you've
read the posts I made on chick excuses in general/relationships.
"Can reasonably PU in "street" environments" - I can reasonably PU in street
environments except without a wing (which I am currently in the process of
improving).
"Is able to provide useful advice to others on their path to improvement." - I
try to offer advice if I've experienced something that I read a guy post about,
and I'm ok with clubs sets and can offer feedback to my wings on the early
stages of that, but there's a lot I'm not sure of or can't explain properly.
Another compliment opener;
When I read this I liked it a lot more than the previous one (just a straight
compliment then introduction), and it's certainly a lot better than my 'I like
your crackers' opener lol. I had to find a chick I would actually want to
sarge who isn't in a club, bar or party (damnit!).
She was a 7 in a mall. I opened her 'what should a guy compliment you on..' as
the assignment stated. She said 'my eyes and my wit mostly', and went on to
say she wished she would get compliments on her appearance on the occasions she
made an effort to look good. I talked with her a while on this subject, she
talked about her ex not complimenting her on her looks which is why she wished
guys would (she's insecure because of that). I introduced myself and talked
more, I eventually tried to get her number but she said 'no but it was nice
talking anyway'. Probably wasn't aggressive enough and should have regamed but
whatever, assignment completed.
Repeat assignments from Week 2!
I re-did working on my mental block and the specific assignment (solo daytime
sarging and compliment opener respectively). I went out 3 times solo day
sarging this week and did 13 approaches on these days, not as many as I would
like to have done.
I did the compliment opener, in a street approach on a cute skater chick. I
said I liked her hoody (it was a korn one) and said I was a big fan. I talked
with her about music, we both like Aerosmith, which lead to talk of clubs and
alcohol. She had to go to the library and asked if I wanted to walk down with
her (it was probably less than 100metres away). I do and we talk more. She's
going to a once-a-month club night I usually go to (one of my favourite venues
as it happens), I said I'd probably see her there then. She asked who I was
going with, I said I wasn't sure yet it depends which of my friends are going,
she said we should meet up there. I asked if she had a mobile, she did, I
asked if she knew the number off by heart, she did, I asked her to put it in my
phone, she did, I ejected.
Wow I did a proper compliment opener and good stuff happened! I'll try and do
them more and get a proper feel for them.
Cas
cas***2@ya***o.uk[ ? ]
|
