mASF post by "Chris Odom" posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, October 10, 2000
On Mon, 30 Oct 2000 mjb***l@my***.com[ ? ] wrote: > Ok guys, I think I need some advice here. If you didn't read my > original post, it was about HB9.5 and how I demonstrated my ability to > fuck other women. She said, " you're never going to get a girlfriend > with those shoes." And I say, "Well, I'm gonna go take that girl home > now, see you later." After I walked away with HB7 and waved at HB9.5, > she gave me the finger along with a very pissed off look on my face.
So you've done nothing wrong. You've demonstrated that she can't bully
you with her words, and you've also demonstrated that chicks are into you.
This is great.
> Update: > I was at a costume party on Sat and HB9.5 shows up in a tight red > brittany spears leather catsuit <drool>. I make some inital remark to > her and she comes right back with, "I'm not talking to you." I ask her > why she's so pissed and she says that it is because I did not loan her > five dollars. ( this is not the real reason ) I ignore this and > continue with the party. Later, I run into her again, I start staring > at her wig intently. She says, "What?" ( still kind of pissed off ) I > say that I can't even tell that she's wearing a wig. ( it IS a really > good wig, this girl know how to shop ) We start talking about the wig, > where she got it, etc. Then she comes around with, "but I'm not > supposed to be talking to you." and walks away. Fine. I see her one > final time at the party, when she asks me for a ride to the bars. I > tell her that I would take her, but then she's like "NOW??????" And > I'm like "when?" her -> "NOW????" Me -> " no, not now." She > says, "Then I'm still pissed at you" and storms out.
Here she is trying to use you. If you had given her this ride, you would
have been her little gopher boy.
> At the bar: I run into her again. She's obviously not having a good > time. 5 minutes after I get to the bar, she asks me for a ride to her > car so she can drive back to another town. She says there is this guy > that she is totally in love with out there. Once again I tell her no > and she leaves and I don't see her for the rest of the night.
She is talking to you about some guy she wants, and at the same time she
is asking you to do favors for her? Fuck her. She's trying to get you to
supplicate and be her doormat.
> Notes: > I believe that the ride to her car might have actually ended up being a > ride to my place, but I'm not sure.
I believe it would have been a ride to see some other guy. She would be
like, "thanks sweetie, catch you later." It would have destroyed any
chance of you getting with her.
> Besides I was having a lot of fun > at the bar that night.
Good. She sees you having fun. She sees you refusing to drop all of that
just to be her little messenger boy and drive her where she wants to go
(ie to see a MAN that she wants to fuck her.)
Think about it...she says she's pissed at you...she says she's not talking
to you...and you're expected to drop your fun time so you can be her taxi
driver to go see some other guy? Dude, refusing was correct. If you had
done her that favor, you would be the stupidest guy in the world.
> I called and left a message ( I've never called her before, got her > number from the book ) I said, "I know you're super-pissed, but I need > to talk to you" and left my number. > > I have a feeling that she won't call me back unless I leave some kind > of hint of an apology in another message.
WHAT THE FUCK??? "I know you're super pissed"....."some kind of hint of
an apology".... what the fuck is that?
1) I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN, I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD
WITHOUT APOLOGY. ***** THAT'S WITHOUT APOLOGY DUDE!! *****
2) If she wants to be a stupid bitch and decide that she is "pissed" well
that is her fucking problem NOT YOURS...you have done nothing wrong!
She's trying to CONTROL YOU with her emotional BULLSHIT and you are
FALLING FOR IT. Do NOT acknowledge or legitimize her bullshit! That was
a huge mistake. It would be better to call her up, GET HER ON THE PHONE
LIVE, and CHALLENGE HER, and STRUCTURE AN OPPORTUNITY. None of this "Gee,
I know you are pissed, but please just hear me out and meet me so I can
make this right." DUDE THAT FUCING SUCKS. Instead, say something like,
"Hey I'm going to XXXXX tonight and I thought you just might be
adventerous enough to come along and have a great time. I could be wrong
about you but I'm betting that I'm right." That's a challenge.
3) You have NOTHING to apologize for, you did NOTHING wrong. Taking some
chick home and fucking her is NOT WRONG! Refusing to be a sucker who
gives 5 bucks to a pretty face is NOT WRONG. Refusing to drop your good
time so you can drive a bitch who treats you like SHIT to see some other
guy is NOT WRONG. How can you play into her game like that??? If you
apologize she will NEVER respect you and she will NEVER have sex with you.
> Here's my plan: > I plan on waiting a day to see if she calls, if not tomorrow I will > leave a message like this, "I'm trying to apologize here, will you > please fucking call me back? ###-####" This might be supplication, > but not very much of it.
Who the fuck are you kidding? Are you just trying to convince yourself?
"I'm trying to apologize here, will you please fucking call me back?"
Holy shit dude this is MAJOR supplication. You might as well paint "I'm a
gay loser" on your forehead and try to fuck her then....what the fuck are
you trying to apologize for?
"Look, I'm really sorry that I fucked a girl after you told me I would
never be able to, I realize how that contradicted what you said. And
shit, I remember you asked me for 5 bucks...I was stupid not to give it to
you. And I realize you wanted to go pledge eternal devotion to some other
guy and you needed me to drop everything and drive you out there, I was
stupid not to, I can't believe how mean I have been to poor innocent
little you. Can we maybe go on a date and I'll try to make it up to you
by spending some money on you? What can I do to deserve you?"
See how much pussy she gives you then...
> If I get her directly, or she calls me back, > I will tell her that she's not pissed at me for the five dollars or for > the rides that she DEMANDED and didn't get. So why don't we get to the > real issue.
Yeah, the real issue being that she is trying to control you and get you
to kiss her ass and qualify yourself to her.
> I will continue to tell her that I never even kissed HB7 > (true) but mostly just walked off with her that night to push HB9.5's > buttons.
WHAT THE FUCK???? "I never even kissed HB7" ??? WHY in gods name would
you ever want to tell her that?? I'd want her to be imagining that I took HB7 and fucked her in the ass a couple times. I'd want her to think that
chicks are constantly wanting to go home with me because I am a desirable
man in their eyes.
>I think I will then ask her if she will go shopping with me > for some new shoes. This will be the perfect final statement, because > of her original line that started it all. And Comments? Suggestions?
You will ASK her in she will go shopping with you for some new shoes? Are
you TRYING to be her AFC? Jesus dude this is the worst possible thing you
could ever do. Is it your goal to go shoe shopping with her? I THOUGHT
you wanted to FUCK HER? But instead you want to go shoe shopping with
her?
MAJOR MAJOR supplication.
What is funny is that you DID all the right things, but now you are
TALKING about doing all the wrong things. Don't ASK. If you ASK her to
do anything, you are DOING IT WRONG. Continue being the MAN, don't get
pushed around by her BULLSHIT, CHALLENGE HER, and STRUCTURE OPPORTUNITIES
for her.
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