mASF post by "Matthew Hill"
posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, January 1, 2000Firstly, thanks for all of the replies.
To give some sort of indication as to my situation, I have been actively
concerned as to my plight since March/April '99, and have been reading all the
online forums I can possibly find, and employing the techiques described as and
where I can.
My situation sounds increadibley simillar to that of the person under question
in the "AFC O'Rama". No, I do not use his "technique", although I might as
well as it brings the same result - nout.
I am activeely trying to approch new women at the moment, although the only
problem is that I often stall for a topic of conversation (and therefore say
nothing to them).
What would really help my posistion is if women were to be approching me, for a
start I wouldn't be worried about "invading thier space" so much and second, it
should ease some of the pressure in the situation, as they would be taking the
interest in me, not the other way round.
I've said it before, and I feel it would be apt to point this out again: I
feel as though I am continually fighting a one-sided battle. Women just
don't want to know me.
Which leads me to question the significance of looks. I am not what you could
describe as looking like Leo Di Caprico (or whoever), I'm just plain old
average. If first impressions count, then obviously this must be a turn-off to
them.
"He's not so good looking - I don't think I'll bother with him. Next!"
If looks aren't important, then why do (younger) women insist on putting up
posters of the latest good-looking male on their bedroom wall (in the same way
that a (younger) man would put one up of Brittany Spears)?
Consider a recent "success" story:
I managed to get chatting to a friend of a (male) friend of mine. We spoke for
quite a while (anything up to about two hours). I used humour, SS techniques
anything that I could think of as being appropriate. I felt as though a was
pretty successful in my new-found attempts. "When you feel as though you've
done something right - there's nothing that can beat the feeling".
It would seem that I had not suceeded.
A few days later, I saw her again said "Hi". No response. She just gave me
the strangest look ever. Time to give up on yet another failiure.
This pattern is common to all my approches, but the above example exemplifies
the situation perfectly.
Don't get me wrong here, on a daily basis I'll see at least one person that
could well be worth a second look. It's just that I think to myself "what do I
say, what do I say". If only....
Incidentally, I'm an Electronic Engineering graduate - although lack of "women
skills" seems to be a genral trait common to all Elec. Eng. Students.
Sorry for the long rant, but I really, really want to overcome this annoying
hurdle.
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