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mASF post by "Vancity_Rockstar"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005A) You need to realize that waitress's get hit on A LOT so I choose to use a
very indirect method.
B) These guys that hit on the waitresses will tell jokes and stories and will
try (I stress the TRY) to be cocky & funny and none of these guys will ever
give this girl a genuine compliment or build a connection with her.
So heres what I did last week in one of Vancouver's resteraunts that is
notorious for hiring only gorgeous women:
She came over and i ignored her at first. I was very focused on my friend and
our convo because I honestly hadn't seen him in a while.
Next time she came I asked her opinion on something and ran this routine that I
made up that displays really high value. She opened up a bit. Next time she
came back I busted her on her hoop earings. She opened right up so I started
qualifying her.
"So what do you have going for you more than your looks?". She rambled on about
how she is a student and shes so smart and a dancer. So I teased her a little
bit and basically said 'well to be honest I usually don't really associate with
waitresses because they usually aren't very smart, but the fact that you are
smart enough to be going to school for this degree is HOT!". She asked me what
I do and I did a grounding routine on the fact that I'm a DJ. She loved it. i
qualified her some more, then went into comfort. From then on I basically just
shot the shit and vibed with her.
She'd go away and come back and I would ignore her. The whole time I was
opening and bringing over other waitresses, servers and hosteses as well. She
would come back and there would be like 3 waitresses there talking to me. ---->
Social Proof.
I asked her what she did, what she wants to be when she grows up etc etc and my
intentions were to make an honest connection. We did and I got her # and we are
meeting up this week.
Because 'hired guns' get hit on a lot the best method is to quickly display
high value , qualify her, then give her genuine compliments (not on her looks)
and build a lot of comfort!
I'm still new at getting waitresses but this has worked for me and I believe
the top guys (Mystery & TD) say to skip the attraction phase and go straight
into qualifying these girls in order to separate yourself from the millions of
other guys that go in there and try to 'run game' on her.
Hope I've helped.
~ Rockstar
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