mASF post by "razorjack" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, June 6, 2005On 6/11/05 1:47:00 AM, jacques wrote: >On 6/10/05 11:31:31 AM, razorjack wrote: >> OK excuse me for a second..... >> (Razorjack rolls up his sleeves and crack his knuckles to rip this post
apart) > >RJ, I am not interested in a pissing >contest. I understand that your method >works >and all I am doing is trying to >understand it. Maybe we only disagree >because I >use my own words to describe it and not >yours.
Jacques, you take things too personally bro.
I'm not trying to get into a pissing contest, nor am I saying you're clueless.
You should look at the THIRD line I wrote in my original response to see that
it was written with a little humor in mind.
>Anyway, I only wrote this post because >many people here seem to believe C&F >should be abusive to the HBs. It's not.
Yes, I understand and totally agree.
>HBs love it when you play with them this >way.
Yes, I agree.
And no, they never believe that you >are not interested,
Are you sure about this?
This really depends on the guy doing it. I've SEEN guys that are completely
rude to chicks and expect that to work.
>the mere fact that >you are playing this type of game with >them shows the opposite.
For YOU, cuz you are doing it the RIGHT way. You tease her with your BL, EC,
etc, which is VERY important. There alot of guys out there that do NOT do this.
THAT was my point.
And what you may be doing is Role Playing not C&F. At least that was what your
example was. You're being funny, but there is no cockiness in your example.
THAT is why I wrote that your example is not Cocky & Funny.
In that case I do the same. I use role playing all the time.
What I was trying to show with my post was the flaw in your thinking.
Namely that you pretending that you are not interested and her knowing that you
really are interested or not doesn't make a difference one way or the other, if
you do not build a genuine connection with her.
THAT is where guys fuck it up. THAT was the whole point of my post.
What I was trying to get across is that you should design your game/style to
where you are working towards building that connection, while keeping her
interested.
Most guys don't do this and this is why they blow the PU or get flakes. THAT
was my point.
-Razorjack
"Why do we chase women instead of settling for one - like most of the other
guys in the world? No clue. We are a unique class of guys. Maybe we got cut off
too early from our mother's milk - so we spend the rest of our lives looking
for that same titty again." - Zan
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