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mASF post by "vamsi"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005Hey guys,
I aint no pua , so you can put this in your
KJ folder. I just want to put forth my views on this
positive thinking/visualization and listening to
cds etc.
I have/had a lot of approach anxiety. And thinking
back on it i realized maybe that it had to do with
watching thousands of hours of indian cinema. They
always had this lame guy go try to pu a girl in
some bus stand or something and get slapped on
his face. Also, in real life in india i never had
many places to interact with girls. Though i did
manage to set up internet dates etc...but then again
i guess it must have been cocky and funny mails(
i didnt know why it worked then..but now it makes
sense....and they fizzled out later in the phone
game or in the meet game, for i was back to the
desperate or needy guy frame...fucking hell!).
So, my point ? Here it goes:
I didnt have to listen to positive tapes or cd's or
any such thing. I just had to let go of the negative
programming or reevaluate the cultural values
which are being pumped in day in/day out. Also,
if you just listen to positive crap...you are just
working on the symptoms instead of the underlying
models which are the source of the symptoms.
As the ancient saying goes(bad translation) i think :
'You can only see yourself, when you clean the mirror
and turn on the light'.
vamsi.
P.S.: Oh yeah, i discovered that girls dont slap
me when i talk to them :-)))).
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