mASF post by "Alessandro"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005Iron_Rinn wrote:
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> EXAMPLE:
> You: whoa. nice shoes. what are you, like four feet tall without them?
> Her: (giggling) you are such an asshole.
> you: thanks, glad you like it.
Nononono, don't stop there. Telling her "thanks, glad you like it" means
you're just saying this to appeal to her. You want to remain congruent
as a funny jerk, so keep stacking C&F:
You: whoa. nice shoes. what are you, like four feet tall without them?
Her: (giggling) you are such an asshole.
You: oooooh, look at these nails .. they're AWESOME
You: this whole girl is FULL OF AWESOMENESS
You: the shoes are AWESOME, the nails are AWESOME
You: take her hand and turn her around a little
You: and the booty is AWESOME
It's never about you, it's all about her. Girls will try to pierce
through your "game" and try to see if it's a facade or a genuine
behavior. If you feel like you're putting on a fake show, there will
come a time when you will have to become "yourself" and show her how
boring you are. Instead, BE cocky and funny, whatever she says doesn't
matter because you KNOW she is just a toy :-)
> Negs are more subtle. With these you pay her a sincere
> (or so it appears) compliment but you know that it is
> not 100% true, so she has to correct you and - in doing
> so - she lowers her status (and therefore you gain
> status). These are trickier in some ways because they
> must be done very nonchalantly to be effective.
>
> EXAMPLE:
> you: (acting sincere) hey, nice purse - is that a 'Louis Vuitton'?
> her: (flattered, embarrassed) oh, thanks, no actually its not, it's a
> (whatever)
> you: (acting somewhat disappointed) oh... well... it's nice anyway....
This one is good, though I might need to ask someone how to pronounce
that ;-)
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