mASF post by "finalD"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, March 3, 2005OceanEyes wrote at Fri, 11 Mar 2005 21:47:00 GMT in
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> Here is how to reframe all this shit if
> it comes up during a seduction: Just make
> sympathetic clucking noises and change the
> subject. If the prospect insists on discussing
> morbid shit instead of the wonderful, natural,
> life-affirming aspects of consensual sexuality
> (say), inform them "no politics" or game over.
> And be prepared to walk away instantly.
>
>
Agreed.
The nightly news view of the world IS depressing. They never
quote the statistics about the REDUCTION in the spread of AIDS
in Africa. Just the death toll.
I'm not some namby-pamby type who thinks things are good. I just
had to learn, the hard way, that politics-work-school are stupid
topics for a sarge. Even the smartest, most informed chicks on
the planet don't want to be engaged about THOUGHTFUL things.
Those things are THOUGHTFUL. They want frivolity, fun, a change
of pace, something that's a lot closer to American Idol and a
lot farther from Dan Rather And The Nightly Depression.
I used to think, had somehow ingrained in me, part of my AFC
training, that there was some fly-on-the-wall judge listening to
all my conversations. This judge would censure me every time I
spoke about something that wasn't "deep" or "intellectual" to
the extent that I could be a guest on the John Daly show, and if
I somehow slipped up and acted LESS deep or intellectual, then
suddenly that fly-on-the-wall would ... what? I dunno.
Cockblock, I guess, or something.
I guess I just had a CHIP on my shoulder. I think it's a typical
AFC chip. Always having to be IMPRESSIVE. Always have to KNOW
WHAT'S GOING ON. Leap into all discussions with rapid-fire
statement of facts, citations, points and counter-points. Hoha,
guard, turn, parry thrust! Totally firing off on all cylinders,
like Yosemite Sam when he grabs his guns and shoots himself up
into the atmosphere, BANG BANG BANG!
This conversational tactic will not get you laid. But will get
you to think OF YOURSELF as "extremely smart." So what? Most
OTHER people will just think you're firing off all your
cylinders BANG BANG BANG for no reason.
I think the "electricity" of an AFC in that mode of thought will
not only turn all chicks off; it will turn of HIS OWN social
abilities, and his gonads too. News-politics-abortion-work-
school-election-organized.religion-sports.statistics-no.
It's pretty obvious, really.
And if you ARE congruently totally distressed at the state of
the world, the act of joining up with some cause in some way
that will make things better, will probably have two immediate
effects: 1. you'll be more "in tune" with your own calling in
the world, and you'll be happier about your choices in life, and
2. chicks will read this.
Get it? If you DO "hate the state of things" and then go to some
peace rally when the next G7 convention happens and you protest
globalization etc., don't you think the protesting-
globalization-chicks at the peace rally will be fucking the
protesting-globalization-dudes at the rally? I mean, what are
tents for?
And if that's your cuppa tea, good. Sign up for it. If it IS
GENUINELY what you think is the right thing to do, there is NO
WAY TO AVOID the fact that you OUGHT TO GO DO IT. right now.
RIGHT NOW.
If, on the other hand, you (like so many other people in our
society) get a little nightly news, feel sad when they see the
bloated bellies of malnourished babies, and then go get a Haagen
Dasz and continue shopping ... well? Find something to be
CONGRUENT about, regarding HAAGEN DASZ fer fucks sake, and THEN
THOSE CHICKS will ball you.
Get it? Women are your mirror. It's like horse training. If you
approach them from a faulty sense of self, they'll reflect that
fact back at you.
--
The surest way to corrupt a youth is to instruct him to hold in
higher esteem those who think alike than those who think
differently.
Friedrich Nietzsche
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