mASF post by "Solo"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005I picked up this girl, got her number... then later day2'd her. She even drove
40 minutes for the day2 to meet me at my house (we live a bit away from each
other.) We ended up cuddling and making out that night... all seemed to go
well.
I was tryin' to set up a day3 today with her, but she was being evasive. And
after a little while, she tells me that she's kinda dating this guy. And she
tells me he's 6'5" and huge.. and very jealous. So I'm thinking wow this is
one big joke she is playing on me. And I'm just laughing at her.
But then she tells me she doesn't want to hang out with me right now because
we'll do something, and although she "really likes me," she doesn't want to
cheat on this guy. And she says even though they're not going out, she would
feel like she's cheating because the other day he said "I think I'm falling
love with you". (BTW, they've only been hooking up for a week, but apparently
have known each other for much longer.)
So the way I respond to all this is basically telling her this guy sounds
perfect for her. And she should be with him instead of me, it would never work
out between us... and we probably should just be friends anyway.
After I say some of this though, she keeps askin' me if I'm mad and I'm telling
her no.
She then tells me that in 18 days she'll be going to my university and moving
right by where I live, and she's going to get rid of him then. And after she
gets to college, then we can "hangout alone and get to know each other then"
because we'll be living right by each other and going to the same university
(btw, she's going to be a freshman so this will be her cumming out party).
So I'm not sure if I handled this the right way... and if I should even take
her up on her offer. The way I left the interaction was that it was "uncertain
whether or not I still like her or not... and that we *might* still be friends"
I just felt as though she should be a little punished for telling me BS like
"in 18 days we can hookup." And I didn't want to be all hunkey dorey like
"oh yes! 18 days sounds fine with me! I'll be waiting for you!"
Also, I'm not sure if I should frame it as her being the prize by making me
wait for some and putting some other guy in front of me, or if I should frame
it as a free ticket for pussy 18 days from now.
The way I'm thinking of handling it right now is talking to her a bit between
the 18 days, and taking her up on her offer, but making her make this up to me
somehow (she'll have to qualify herself to me again).
Comments/Suggestions?
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