mASF post by "Papi_Chulo"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, June 6, 2005No longer a virgin.
It was a event 28 years in making. Wooohooo, maybe I should name
myself 28. Take that, 26! At this seminal event of my life(yes, I said
seminal), I would like to give special thanks to my mentor and
friends: Hoobie and Chariot of RSD Australia who taught
me how to open women from the scale of 1 to 10, Will Hicks of
youaresoinmyway.com who taught me just be damn comfortable with
myself around people, and OCwaterboy who taught me it's okay to show
her my interest up front(I mean just strictly "interests", if you are
to interpret that liberally, please report back the results).
Okay back to the LR. This momentous occasion took place, like, a month
ago. Funny, I actually didn't plan to run any game that weekend. I was
attending LA international Salsa Congress, and I went with full
expectation of dancing with as many different women as possible and
just have a good time doing it. Dancing salsa with a new woman every
five minute is addictive, just trust me on that. Some people even say
Salsa is better than sex. I've danced with a lot of women, but only
had sex once, so I don't know, but I do intend to collect more
samples, I will report back my findings.
A little background about LA Salsa Congress. There are over 5000
people in attendance, that's at least 2500 women of all shapes and
colors from all over the world. And there are at least 1000 HBs among
them, all dolled up waiting for guys to ask them to dance. Take a
salsa lesson, or just come to the Congress to game them, guys.
On the first night, I ran into quite a few HBs that I've danced with
before in other cities. Okay, I take my dancing seriously. I could go
on and on about the emotional high, self- expression and sensual body
sensations involved in dance. But that's not why we are here. The
point is that I am a decent dancer and I 've many times had a woman
that would melt in my hands on the dance floor, but in my pre-ASF
days, I just don't know what to do with them afterwards. I know what I
want to do with with them, but don't know how to lead them there. So I
would've just danced and teased them, but nothing happened. I had
bunch of women who loved to dance with me, excited to see me in dance
clubs, and I never made any moves and would go home later to work out
my frustration with pole-arm practise. Anyway enough with my pre-ASF
life story. Back to the lay report.
These HBs were all excited to see me, many times they would run up to
me and drag me straight to the dance floor. one chick from DC in
particular, come up from behind me and grabbed me from behind. With
this girl, I had build in attractions before from dancing with her.
But while I had know her in DC, I didn't really know how to take it
further other than being Cocky and Funny. She would repeatedly come
back to me for dancing and many times she would ask me lots of
questions which I would gave her Cocky and Funny answer for. This
time, however, I am fully equipped by my ASF knowledge, armed and
dangerous. After dancing with her, I had my arms around her neck, and
we started walking around. I know that I got attraction build into
her,
I tease her lightly and then go straight into rapport. While walking
her around, dance performances started in the main hall, I took the
opportunity to venue changer her by taking her from the dance floor to
where performances are being held. Sat her down next to me while we
watched the performance. A little light banters/rapport between
performance,she mentions her life is much better now compared to
before. I thought she is going to tell me how she found the light in
Salsa. But she said something about founding her faith in God again, I
lead the convo away from the topic. Later She comment on how the
dancing between a brother/sister pair was lewd (Okay, I was actually
pretty sure the pair was a couple and they really sizzled on stage
before the announcer announces that they were sibling, well it
just goes to show.. . oh never mind). And I thought, great, a fundie
and a prude. She was still jet lagged and was feeling tired halfway
thru the performance and wanted to return to the hotel, I know I will
see her for next three nights, so I was in no hurry and walked her to
the door of "SalsaLand".
Next Night, She found me on the dance floor and asked me to dance.
After dancing with her, I put my arm around her neck and started
walking while we talked. Then I remember Ocwaterboy had told
me that he would take the girl started walking toward the car without
saying anything. I was planning to go back anyway, so
I started walking toward the exit. She asked me where I am going, I
told her I am going to my car. At the door of "Salsaland",
however, she stopped and wouldn't go further. she actually told me
that she couldn't go over the threshold. I know she
is talking about sex.
Me: Okay let's try again.
With arms still around her, I backed us from the door, and then start
walking toward it again. Again she stops at the door.
Me: Okay third time, it's the charm.
I backed us away from the door and then start walking out again, this
time she ducked under my arm. So I knew she needed more. But I wanted
to leave and I know I would see her again next night. So I bid her
goodnight and left.
Third night, I saw her dancing, I grabbed another girl and started
dancing as well. Somehow we ended up right next to each other. I just
concentrated on the girl that I was dancing with and we had a great
time together. After the song ended, the girl that I had danced with
hang around and asked me where I am from,blah, blah. I told her no
stalking and she said she is safe cuz she is married. Hah! After I was
done with her, my girl come out of nowhere and grabbed me from behind.
So, this time I decide to properly game her, I walked her around
again, this time I found a bench with seats. I sat her down and ran
Cube on her. we must've talked for a while, because next thing we know
the music had stopped and the salsa night is wrapping up. At this
point we both gather our things and we walked out hand in hand. She is
heading toward the shuttles that would take her to the hotel, I told
her that I would give her a ride.
Girl: where do u live?
me: Hollywood
Girl: Wow, I always wanted to see the Hollywood sign
me:Okay, let's go
Girl: right now?
Me: yeah, right now, let's go.
Girl:Oaky, let's do it.
This is about 4 O'Clock in the morning. To paraphrase Will Hicks, the
only sign she is likely to see is the one on my door.
More rapport building in the car where she basically did most of the
talking.Drove directly to my apartment, parked. She followed me to in.
Up to this point, I had never kiss a girl. But, I am like, okay, it's
over now, cuz I seen the rest of it in movies. Yeah, I am
getting laid! Show her around a little bit. I had no furnitures in
living room save one chair. So now it's no time to cozy up on the
couch. I show her briefly my bathroom,bedroom and my fake fur coat
that I use to peacock with. She said she never see me with a serious
face. Okay. I walk close to her, gave her a look that says no more
games. She reach around my waist and said "my boyfriend would kill
me". Whatever, I reached down and kissed her. After a long kiss, She
suggest we should shower and go to sleep. Sleep, right! She asked me
for a T-shirt to wear, I suggest that she should be cozy in my fake
fur coat. Didn't force the issue, toss her a T-shirt. She showered and
get in bed. Mwaaahahahahaha! I made myself clean for the
next round and jump into bed with her. Wrap my arm around her from the
back, she starts to touch my arms lightly with her
fingers. I moved her hair to reveal the back of her neck and start
smelling her (Thanks, David DeAngelo!) She starts to
kino my legs. Moved my hands toward her leg up to her panties. Here I
encounter resistance. Time to disarm LMR.
Let's go to sleep, she said. Sure, I concurred and kept going(Thanks,
Randy of RSD for the intro to the wash-rinse-repeat method). Initially
she would stop my hands before I touch her boobs. So I made sure she
keep on getting more and more turned on by going back to smelling,
touching, and licking, then after tire of playing tug of war with her
cloth. I took my hands away and then I told her to take the T-shirt
off because I want sleep with her naked by my side and she complied. I
remember people (sorry, forgot name) on ASF had posted reach around
the ass to the pussy method, tried it , she stop me just before I
could touch her pussy. She kept on saying we should sleep, and I
verbally agreed with her entire time while keep physically advancing.
She put her hands on my leg, so I put it on my
cock and she starts to massage it thru the brief, but she still
wouldn't let me reach inside her panties. I thought about
it, yeah, it's only fair that I should show some initiative (or show
some balls, literally, in this case). I took off my briefs and put her
hands directly on my cock. Sure enough, my hands slip under her
panties few seconds later. Took me another few rounds of
wash-rinse-repeat to take her panties off. But when I reach out for my
condom, she would be telling me we should go to sleep again. Whatever,
I just put my condom on and put her hands on my sheathed cock. She was
already very wet when I slip my finger inside her pussy. She continue
to stroke me and let me finger her but she wouldn't let me mount her.
Okay. time to reach for the deep spot (Thanks David Shade!). She is
very aroused and close to come, I part her knees and kneeled between
her legs while continue to finger her, and keeping her hand on my
cock. Leaning over, viola, I made my dick disappear in her pussy!
A little note about the sex. Vagina wall isn't as tight as I expected,
my hands felt much better during masturbation. Yeah, I love jerking
off, I just had no idea how much until I actually had sex. I would
probably be a lot more hornier and into it if I hadn't masturbated
like 7 times per night over the course of that
week (That's only way I found to sooth my...er.. nerves.. after
rubbing against all those exposed flesh at the Salsa Congress),
lack of sleep didn't help either. My dick certainly is responding, but
I don't think I have any juice left. NUTS! Maybe
Gunwitch is right, I should've quit spanking the monkey before PUing.
I am rock hard, but I just can't fucking blow my load. And
Frankly after 10 min of pumping her, I am getting bored. Then, I
started to notice things, like she wasn't as good looking with her
cloth off, she looks more like a 6 now. That definitely didn't help my
mood. I decide to try doggie style. I had always wanted to do doggie
style. At this point she is pretty cooperative when I turn her around.
I kind of fumbled little for her pussy, then I just took her hand to
guide my cock into her. That's when I realize she didn't have much of
that fat, juicy ass that I had always fantasized about. Maybe I
unconsciously pattern my experience after 26's first lay. I mean it's
kinda of anti-climatic after all that work overcoming the LMR. I am
like, I fucking went to seminar, bootcamp and sarged my weekends for
this? I mean the sex wasn't horrible, she certainly seem to really
enjoyed it. But Frankly I am getting bored. As much as my dick is
still hard, I just don't see much of a chance to blow my load inside
her at this point, rather I didn't want to wait that long. So, I did
the next gentlemanly thing. I slid out of her, flip her on her back
and start to finger her hoping she would come quickly and I can get
some sleep.
About David Shade's technique, namely the deep spot and 1 O'clock
position. I had expect her to have a earth-shattering orgasm as soon I
do the come-hither thing with my finger while hopefully not
permanently damage my IKEA bed. To her credit, she did come very
close, then while I am expecting the climax, she would just keep on
whimpering. Later when I reread David Shade's manual, he did mention
that he used for 10-30 min. I mean 30 min?!! I don't have the patience
and discipline of a Shaolin monk. On the other hand(actually her
hand), my one-eyed Monk certainly had a Zen attitude about final
release. But I remember reading Sperm Wars that women are all
different in how they climax, so I decide to experiment. For her, the
back of the deep spot didn't seem to do much, she is more reponsive
toward the front of the deep spot and 1'O clock position. Rubbing
along her pubic bone on the side of her clit worked well too. At one
point, she is becoming a little dry. But I had just purchased
Astro-Glide the week before and it was in the night stand. I just took
it out and dripped liberally over her (I found out later she never
even heard of Astro-glide). Anyway after about 15 mins of her very
close to coming, I am bored again. Bored with a hard on. At this
point, she said, "I want to feel you inside me again". I am really not
looking forward to anther 20 min of humping with no ejaculation in
sight. So I pretend I am done, I said "don't be greedy", slap her ass
and lay down to sleep with my hard on. She wanted to cuddle which I
complied.
In the morning, she got up first, showered and put on a new dress. She
bought a new dress with her last night?? My dick is hard again, I am
like this is a torture why can't I just ejaculate. I asked her to lay
down so I can give her a backrub. While massage her, I straddled her.
My hard cock was rubbing against her crack. Then I am like, I gotta
give it another try to blow my load. I start to undress her, she
helped this time. I decide to tried different positions. I started
missionary and then doggie style. Just not happening. so again being a
gentleman, I pull her on top of me and hoping maybe she could get off
rubbing herself on me. After a while
she is getting closer,but I am still nowhere close to come. I am
getting bored again. I am thinking when does this woman gonna cum so I
can get a shower and go dancing with other women. We stopped after a
while and just hugged and kissed.
I did what David Deangelo had suggested, I prepared a hot bath and
pull her into it with me(yeah, I am a classy guy, I felt like Mickey
Rourke from 9 1/2 weeks, but she ain't no Kim Basinger). Although she
eyed my cock several times, I guess I could have gotten a BJ from her
in the tub. But I just didn't want to be dissappointed again not
blowing my load.
It was a gorgeous sunny day in LA, so I took her with me to sunset
blvd to have lunch. Did some teasing banters/rapport banters. At this
point, I have no more interest in having sex with her. But I still
like the interaction be fun for me and memorable for her. She is
flying back to DC that night, and I will be the story she tells her
grandchildren. Day is still young(we had few more hours before the
last night of social dancing at the Congress), I took her to see the
Hollywood sign as I promised night before and we drove to Malibu to
catch the sunset over Santa Monica mountains. Along the way, we talk
about how men and women communicate differently. She said "it's true,
because when people ask you how is the Salsa Congress, you will talk
about dance and the dancers, but when they ask me I will be
think of you." It's amazing what a shift in attitude and demeanor in
woman after she had sex with you. The whole day, she keep
on reach out for my hand, leaning on my shoulders, hugging me. I
thought, alright! even though the sex sucked, I still
get to be the Romantic hero in the Romance novel, Woohooo!
I was pretty sure she understand that this is a fling. I have her
number from before but she doesn't have any of my contact info. Then
three weeks ago, I got an email from her. She tracked down my email
from DC area salsa dance email list. She said she couldn't
stop thinking about me and asked if I consider it stalking. I told her
she came pretty close and if she keeps on like that I would have to
put a restraining order on her. I thought about what I wanted out of
this interaction. I decided that I am certainly not looking for a
relationship with her. I will take a woman that make me WANT to spring
my seeds and not living a 3000 miles away. So I decide to let her
know, gently, that I am, or at least aspire to be a player. She calls
me her Papi Chulo (It's em blazoned on my favorite T-shirt for Latin
events, great reaction from girls at Puerto Rican Pride festival, but
I digress) and she says she likes to think me as HER Papi Chulo. I
told her "don't be so needy, Papi Chulo is for the world". And I only
respond to her email when I have absolutely nothing to do which is
rare. In one email, She quoted what Calvin Coolidge said about
persistence, so I told her that Calvin is the reputed originator of
"Coolidge Effect", if she hasn't heard of it, she should google for
the amusing background story. I think she got the hint. In her last
email, she asked me if when I had the CUBE ran on ME, if I had
pictured a herd of wild horses instead of a single grazing stallion.
Haha, this girl is funny, if only she had come equipped with a ghetto
booty and pair of pendulous hooters, she could totally be my GF.
Cheers,
Papi Chulo
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