mASF post by "beatcal"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, June 6, 2005A lot of the commentary here and on Bristol Lair revolves around sarging in
bars/clubs. I'd like to get some opinions, though, on the best methods
(Gunwitch? Juggler? Double Your Dating?) and techniques for use when
approaching a girl in some other context - bookstore, grocery store, street,
whatever. To me, the differences between bar/club approaches and non-bar/club
approaches are substantial. In the latter case,
a) there's no music/dancing/noise;
b) there's no booze;
c) she's usually alone (no obstacles);
d) you're usually alone (no wing);
e) the environment is usually free of AMOGs and other HBs;
f) she's not necessarily expecting to be approached;
g) she may not be looking her absolute best; and
h) time constraints are more significant.
(On the time constraints point, I mean that when you meet a girl in a club,
she's usually expecting to be out for a few hours, so you don't have to worry
about chatting her up for a while, taking time to build attraction, rapport,
etc. No one goes to the grocery store, though, planning on spending three hours
there. If she's got some place to be after she gets her chicken breasts and
pesto, you may need to work much faster.)
So, thoughts/advice/experience on whose method works best when you're NOT in a
bar/club, or on specific things that you do differently when you're approaching
in some venue other than a bar/club? Thanks.
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