mASF post by "Nemanja"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, March 3, 2005On 3/3/05 12:24:00 PM, Jamster wrote:
>[Note: What I wrote is a little harsher
>than I intended. Please don't take it
>as hostile. I think the advice really,
>REALLY would do you good.]
Don't worry about it. I posted asking for advice.
>Do you see what is wrong with this
>picture?
>
>1) Rejecting her without doing here was
>probably harder on that poor girl than
>doing her and then rejecting her.
>
>Easier on you though, I guess. Don't be
>selfish.
LOL, I never looked at it this way. But I didn't LIKE her and, therefore,
didn't want to "do" her.
>2) If you gave her what she wanted,
>maybe she would get a little grounded
>and not be as spacy as as this "Phoebe"
>you mentioned. (Aside: You watch TV?
>Why waste your time?) "Seducing" you
>was likely a nerve-wracking task.
A female friend of mine hangs out with her and her group even now, and I know
that she was looney not because she was in love with me, but because she IS
that way. And I approached her after some of the heaviest IOIs possible, and
even that only after my friends persuaded me that I should hook up with her in
order to forget a girl I had onities for.
>Actually, no. You probably never
>learned any of it. Just read it, didn't
>take it out to the field? You didn't
>learn it.
>
>> I am now in the
>>process of reading routines I
>>like and translating them to
>>Serbian language.
>
>PLEASE STOP.
>
>The only routine you need.
>
>"Hi! How ya doing?"
>
>Do it a few hundred, maybe a thousand
>times.
I didn't take that stuff out to the field because I didn't have anything to
take out. Material is more my problem then the inner game». If it weren't so,
and if I was unable to emit a good vibe, then how did I get IOIs in my life
from quite a few HBs? I got them because I acted as if I really was alpha. Did
you read what I wrote WHY I'm taking all these routines and translating them?
Because I'm not conditioned to speak and behave that way naturally. Anyway, I
said that I didn't have the material to take out to the field. Let's analyze:
TFM - patterns which can be used in rapport phase, this guide doesn't help you
very much with the attraction phase,
The Gunwithch method, Mike Pilinski's book "Without Embarrassment»", David D's
Double Your Dating e-book and Advanced Series CDs, Derek Vitalio's Seduction
Science, Keanu Jegger's Situational Opener Technology - none of these product
gave me routines, and ROUTINES are what I need.
I don't want to say "Hi! How ya doing?" and then stall, because I don't know
what to say! I read enough seduction material to know that this opener without
knowing where you'll go from it, DOESN'T GET YOU ANYWHERE. I think that the
best material is what I found in the last two months: Swinggcat's "Real World
Seduction", the entire compilation of posts at Bristol Lair, The Juggler
Method, and TD's, Mystery's and other PUA's posts. That stuff is worth good
money, and that's the stuff I've been looking for, for the last year and a
half!
>Here's a plan. PU on the streets, in
>the grocery, in the laundrymat, in the
>park, at concerts, wherever.
So you disagree with others who say I shouldn't care and should go out alone?
>Pick girls that are so fat ugly, etc.,
>that they will not expect a relationship
>with you beyond one night.
Errrr, I am not that desperate. Hooking up with girls below OK babes 6.5 is out
of the question. Fat and ugly? I couldn't get an erection even with a bottle of
Viagra!
>Once you learn to recognize women's
>sexual response,
I think I know how women's sexual response looks like. Why does everyone think
that if a guy is not a PUA he can't recognize IOIs?
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