mASF post by "versiondub"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, February 2, 2005I'll just post your convos and tell you what I think.
HB: Hello?
ME: Hey I hope your day is going well... I like your profile, do you have a
picture? How long have you been living around here?
> it may just be me, but you're not assuming a very ALPHA, COMMANDING role here
- you're just asking her lame questions.
HB: (picture) A couple years... And yes, I just updated my profile, it's not
the greatest pic but it works!
>here's your chance to neg her.
(great facken pic - Rated 9)
ME: Hey how is it going in cityXYZ what are you doing there? How often do you
come to Seattle? I just got home; cant sleep for some reason so probably I am
going to watch a movie now
>As ijjjji says - cut down on questions. I don't completely follow his advice,
but still, questions bespeak lameness especially in this case. Come up with
something INTERESTING to talk about. dont waste valuable time with FLUFF.
HB: Well, I have off today, and am just trying to get things done really. I
usually try to go to seattle on my days off, but I have been so buisy lately,
it's been pushed aside. I love XYZ Place and find all the little stores quite
interesting! Hope your night went well, hear from you soon? :)
>another chance to be C&F - dont let yourself blow it.
ME: Yeah I know how it is ... during the day off but it feels good once you
have them done :) I have been in the same situation lately. Just too many
things to do. Let me know next time you will be here and if you like coffee we
can go get some and maybe walk around xyz place?
>you're pitching the meet too soon - again, a lot of guys here say that you
should just game until the girl suggests a meet - I don't necessarily do this,
but you have to have some sort of gauge when BT is high, and then go for the
meet. Don't just go for a cold meet over email.
HB: That sounds really good. I'm moving here shortly, so if you want to email
me you are more than welcome to... It's yyy***y@ya***.com[ ? ]. I will probably be
there within the next couple of weeks. Hope to hear from you soon, PUA. Have a
good day :)HB!
ME: hey HB! how are you today? so you are moving to a different place there?
where did you live before you came to washington? I can't wait to meet you. I
hope you have a great day... :)
> again man, TOO FUCKING AFC. I know how you are, because I was like this.
Without coming across too much as a DYD newsletter, you've GOT to lose the
needy tone to your emails!
HB: (Valentines night) Hello again, I seemed to have accidentally misplaced
your e-mail address, so sorry..... can you write me again? Looking forward to
it and Happy Valentines Day!
>BUST ON HER, for chrissakes.
ME: (send email - and told her i will email her later)
ME: Hi HB, how is it going? did you move to your new place? i am at work
waiting for the traffic on 520 to improve so i can go home. Did you have a good
valentine's day? I am sure you got a lot of cards and roses.
> wow man, just wow. I don't know how you could have said anything more lame,
but you did, man. subscribe to the DYD newsletter - it'll help you a bit. Get
DYD (double your dating) - it'll help you loads at this point.
HB: No roses and no cards here! But it was still avery delightful day!! Yes I
did move into my new place and I love it, i feel like I am on vacation every
day! Well, I don't have much time, so I will see you later!-HB :)
ME: cutie like you, I don’t believe that :) fantastic! Do you have to share
that beautiful place with a roommate or it is all yours?
>more afc junk man. cut the shit, get it in your mind that YOU are the prize,
NOT her.
"I too shall lie in the dust when I am dead, but now let me win noble renown."
-Homer, The Iliad
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