mASF post by "V"
posted on: mASF forum: Playettes Discussion, March 3, 2005On 3/14/05 10:37:36 PM, finalD wrote:
>No, seriously, when women make some offhand comment like, "I
>presume that's not referring to me :)"
>(in response to "if you don't look good, then don't >bother") I read some
degree of self-congratulation that is
>risky.
There is a common theme in some of the posts you've made here recently. When
you talk about women and value, you talk about women's appearance. Now I am not
denying that physical appeal is possibly the number one factor in initial
interaction, and maybe even ongoing interaction, for a vast number of men. The
point I am making is that I don't care.
I look good, and I don't need to reel off a list of statistics here to justify
it, nor do I need you to tell me. Why? Because I look good enough for me. That
might not be what you want to hear if your strategy at seducing women relies on
negging an 8 or a 9 (10s you may not have to bother with, often they're alone
'cause every guy thinks they'd already have a line of men chasing after them).
But if your strategy relies on negging, you're basing your entire game on the
premise that your own esteem is beneath that of your target; you have to "bring
them down" to your level. And that's dangerous.
The first step in the fastseduction.com guide is (or at least used to be when I
last read!) FTOW - Fuck Ten Other Women. Its about distancing yourself from the
approval of any particular individual, taking your balls out of their purse,
and taking care of them yourself. Feed your own needs and you will have the
vibe, confidence and detachment to play whatever game you choose successfully.
I don't really care whether I'm a 7, a 6, a 4 or a 2. If someone doesn't
recognize the me I see when I look in the mirror that's their loss. If they
don't find me sexually stimulating, they're not going to give me what I need
sexually either. If they don't respect me as a person, or can't bond on an
emotional level, I'm just not interested. I have better things to do with my
time than chase some cocksucker around who puts me down all the time, asking
"honey, honey, does this body still do it for you?" Its not about that. Its
about being happy. And being happy is good to be around.
This is exactly the attitude that a number of the PUA guides (Gunwitch is one
that springs to mind in particular) describe, and if a male "PUA" can't handle
the idea of a woman feeling good about herself the way he does about himself,
I'd say he still has work to do.
V
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