mASF post by "Veevix"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, June 6, 2005On 6/19/05 1:47:00 PM, misterP wrote:
>Dont really know what took me
>so long, but i have started
>now and feel good about it.
It took me years ;).
>we decided we
>should do about 10 warm-up
>approaches...just asking a
>question to a girl we saw on
>the street.
I did 4 of these 'warming ups' asking the time and asking directions. One of
them went quite well, two goodlooking girls, I asked for directions and asked
if it was a nice place. This way we had a small conversation going, lasted for
one minute or so, but it gave me some courage to do more :).
>We did the following openers:
>
>- we where in the lounge of
>the club. we sat down near
>2girls. it was a very obvious
>move.
I tried not to make it too obvious by leaning against the wall (because at the
side of the bench you could lean to the wall, while at the bench we were
sitting you couldn't :). So I don't think it was that obvious :).
>-Then Veevix did the who lies
>more opener. Even though it
>didnt come out super smooth,
>the two girls he asked where
>instantly playfull and
>interested in the subject.
>Again though, we didnt manage
>to continue the conversation.
Yeah it wasn't really smooth, but it came out quite natural. One girl smiled
and reacted positively. The other one stood there and said nothing. It felt
natural for me, so if I had something else to say I might've been able to
continue the conversation. Instead, I just said bye and left.
It was a good one though, especially for one of the first approaches :).
>-Veevix went up to two girls
>and told him he and I had a
>bet. He said he thought the
>girls where sisters and I
>thought friends. the girl said
>sisters and when i gave her a
>'yeahh right' look (one was
>blackhaired the other blond)
>she asked in a bitchy voice if
>i didnt believe her. I said i
>was very unlikely cause the
>one was blond and the other
>black. She told me it was
>dyed. again the convo stopped
>after this
Well, it didn't stop after that, she said to me that they were twins. I said
'What? A one-egg twin or a two-egg twin?' (I forgot the real words in English
:). She said 'A two-egg twin' 'Oh yeah, that is more believable :)'
Later I thought I could've said something like 'Oh, then YOU must be the evil
twin ;)'
Again, the other girl was silent, this happens most of the time right?. I had
the intention to approach both girls, but only one responds..
>thanx for any comments on my
>field report
Yeah thanks :).
I do notice that this has helped me to like approaching. I just feel like doing
it one more time. However, I don't think that I would then have the courage to
do it.
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