mASF post by "the_f0x"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, July 7, 2005I like to give a small disclaimer before each of my posts to let people know
exactly what I’ll be talking about and also to guide my thoughts as I write
this. Here she is:
I’m using PU in a very different manner from most of you guys. I’m, in essence,
picking up everyone. Guys, girls, young, old, whatever. And my real close is
untarnished respect from everyone around me; I want to be THE alpha male.
I’m going to do a field report of a party and then end with some thoughts and
questions about some of these concepts. Hopefully they’ll stir up some
comments.
FIELD REPORT
The setting: bbq and then party at a good friend of mines house, fairly
exclusive (in the beginning) and a good group of folks. I have half a gallon of
vodka that I baby-sit on and off.
9:00 Everyone starts to show up. Good cool, I make connections with everyone
that come in, hugs, superior eye contact, AMOG all the guys but make them feel
at home, I’m really using Craig’s “My house” frame. I have “Win State, Bitch”
written on my hand, which ends up becoming a prop, lol.
10:00 More people show up including HB SurpriseSlut or HBss for short. She’s
one of 3 pointed targets I have for that night. She enters, I’m throwing negs
and acknowledging the guys around her, she’s acting fine. I see her sneak off
with another friend Hbpothead. HBss decides to drink. She has 4 shots of rum. I
stopped using shot glasses after 7 and just started to toast from my bottle.
I’m a little messed up.
10:30 I reengage HBss after upholding my Win State frame, I’m feeling really
confident. I walk up to her with direct body language, we’re making eye contact
and she’s glazed over from the alcohol, I can tell. She immediately grabs for
me with a hug. I walk back, body language neg. She complains about how we
flirted in school and how I don’t want to flirt with her now. (Yeah, good one.
*rolls eyes*) I give the group a look like “wtf happened to her?” and walk off
in alpha style. This happens maybe two more times before she’s isolated enough
where I can go up and whisper something in her ear.
“You get horny as hell when you drink, sweetheart.”
“No, I’m always horny. Now I just have an excuse.”
Whoah. This is basically what Gunwitch preaches, coming straight from her lips.
She wants sex. Later she asks me, “Are you a virgin.” I stare her down and then
turn around/take away and walk off like she’s being annoying; little sister
frame (thanks TD).
She gets on some guy later, he’s a virgin and HBss is going off on how she’s
going to make his first fuck his best or something. She’s showing very direct
body language, lots of physical IOIs. I’m kinda drunk and a bit overwhelmed at
the slutty behavior of this perfectly decent girl, so I eject again and meet up
with HBIsrael.
HBIsrael is an 8 with amazing tits. I want them. I’m not going to go into that
at all but later that night I get amazing responsive kino back from her, and I
# close. (I gotta say it feels good to write “and I # close.” I’m really doing
this shit…god life can change fast.)
It’s 11:00. HBss has left AFC_Virgin and is vibing with some guy on the stairs.
I sit down in a drunk and high stupor which provides for great cover to act
basically however I want. (I need to assume this frame all the time, more
aggressive though.) HBss starts the IOIs:
“I never noticed your leg hair, thef0x, but I like it.” *She begins rubbing my
legs.*
She puts her arms around both of us, the two guys on each side, then focuses
solely on me, rubbing my back softly.
Then the hand massage. I comment, “You’re very good at that, where did you
learn how to do that? You have to teach me.” (I really do want to learn. The
shit she did to my hand made me hard, it was weird.) She responds: “Yeah, I
guess I just know how to use my touch to please boys.” LOL. I had a hard time
not laughing so I pretended like I was passing out again.
Then the other AFC guy trys to isolate her, “want to go on a walk.” She refuses
at first, “I think I need to stay here and not move too much.” Huge IOI to me.
He responds: “I can help you up.” She complies hesitantly. As she stands she
positions her right hand directly on my crotch and stands up. I know its on but
I’m not sure I want to ride the community bike.
They come back and I get way more kino from the girl, she asks lots of
questions about how I’m uncomfortable around her. I respond, “Have you heard of
projection? It’s when someone feels an emotion and they put it on someone else
to ease their emotion. So maybe you’re just uncomfortable around me.” She
seriously considers this and realizes, even if it wasn’t true two seconds ago,
it is now. Thank you patterning language ;p
Another random dude isolates her and they go make out I guess, who cares. They
come back in later, she wants to go. I stop her, isolate quickly and give her a
very sexual hug, very much my dick on her stomach, and # close.
I pass out at 3, at work at 8, writing this at 12:30.
(As an afterthought before I hit the bed, I used to be so self conscious about
the way I looked, wearing baggy clothing to try to cover up myself. I went piss
and looked in the mirror and realized that I’m THE MAN, that I have the best
clothing, finest tuned social skills, and smartest guy there. I’ve changed so
much so fast, its really mind boggling.)
CONCEPTS AND THEORY
I’d like to talk about challenge. Competition and challenge.
If I know that HBx wants it, do I want it less? The answer is yes. There is no
chase, no hunt, nothing about it from that point on makes it about being an
alpha male. From then on its basically just don’t fuck up instead of running
the perfect game until then.
Is it just me or does pegging a girl like HBss seem a lot less…gratifying. I
knew from the get go she was going to be getting on guys, she had the horny
look and she was super touchy with me. So does that diminish my feelings? Yes,
it sure as fuck did.
To really get the best ones I think you have to keep running perfect game up
until the actual f-close even after she’s shown she’s attracted (IOIs). If she
is a 10 this is going to take all the way up until end game to do but when it
does all click you get the same reaction I got from HBss.
Is it just me or does pegging a drunk horny girl feel like taking advantage of
someone. I think I’m still programmed to think that getting head or sex (dunno
what would’ve happened) that night is just too fast. I’m all for sex but I
guess I’m still a pussy about getting it so quickly, about escalating, about a
one night stand.
How have you guys gotten over this? It’s almost a fear of mine.
I’m actually afraid of a one night stand…
Any thoughts?
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