mASF post by "parker011"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, June 6, 2005On 6/6/05 4:16:00 AM, jjmikemike wrote:
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>Hey Parker, nice report as
>usual. So do you ever think
>of making a transition to a
>more natural approach? You
>seem really money, like you're
>very secure, so I wonder if
>you wouldn't do better
>dropping some of these
>techniques that seem to me to
>be a crutch for people with
>approach anxiety. My feeling
>is that you're past that
>point, and that you could do
>very well with a more
>straightforward approach. But
>maybe you like to play the
>"game," which is fine too, I'm
>just asking. And of course,
>maybe one has to play the
>indirect game to extract a 10
>from a club. Peace,
>
>jj
Thanks man, I have actually been struggling with the natural issue for a while.
Before joining the community, I was OK with 5,6,7 looking girls, I could open
with "what's up" and sometimes fumble my way to a hookup after some alcohol was
introduced. But now I go after HBs and SHBs, this is out of my traditional
comfort zone and the approach needs to be different.
So, I rely on some canned stuff. But after a few minutes it turns into more
"natural" material. I like how it transitions, I get past the hook point and
let general BL and C&F take over, with a few selected tactics & techniques. Of
course, I learned it all, but it seems natural now.
When I try to go all-natural, I get caught up in fluff talk. However, I am
working through this and I will actually be posting something on fluff talk
soon. I figure in time, the natural Parker will fully take over, but having a
go-to opener is no problem at all.
Parker.
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