mASF post by "Walden"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, April 4, 2005Fri night with Bt and Phacade.
We hit Globe round 2100.
Ran about a half dozen sets, one of which we managed to get the mini isolate to
the couches (and would have had it away except for the fact that we lost them ,
figured we'd been ditched and left) bugger.
In fact there were a couple sets that went well enough to close , however we
weren't disciplined in our play and didn't go for the throat.Rather I was
skittish and opened sets all over the place rather than sticking with good one
to their end.
We rolled to Shads IMHO an unnecessary venue change but a welcome break. We're
still in the old habits of RAFCs wether sarging is initmidating and results
scarce, now I am consistently getting poast social hook point and we have
options on closing (and so is Bt, and Photon come to that), so the need to take
a break or venue change is obviated. We're there to fcuk chicks not 'sarge'. At
shads I opened a 5 table , my boys did well , in fact so well that they were on
the two hot ones (who were confident enougjh to be responsive) and I was left
being staled by a pair of sixes.Gah boy logic , youre fcuking sixes , show some
gratitude , but they were too socially retarded to carry on a conversation.So I
pulled us out. Bad bad Walden. I cost my boys closes on teh two girls when I
shoulda been massively holding off the CBs.
Mea clupa gentlemen.
Nuff said on that.
In First BAse Phacade opened a LW that became a 2 set (using a free situational
opener that blew the fcuk up!!) and I opened a big 6 set . One of whom
conversationally isolated tio me (on bug sets hey'll often just let you chat
one of their number).
Bt opened a 2 set and pummelled.I went in to back Phacade up as he was
outnumbered (but never outgunned), midway through he felt it was staleing and
ejected. I kinda rebriefed him that that set had hardly just begun , and that
he coulda stayed in if he'd wanted to.
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Bad points.
We were well sloppy. I mean LOSING two HBs WTF??????
Also I didn't have a plan to exploit getting past SHP. I'd kick in , open and
then not have a worthwhile mini isolate or venue change plan. Bugger buger
bugger.
That happened on the sttreet as well . Street day sets are fine cos youre going
one up mostly and can just take her for coffeee or get a # , but night time
group sets on the street ??
I guess you just heinous oversell a bar somewhere and drag.
Also I and my wings are fcuking around out there. Open , genrate attraction ,
mini isolate. Every single time. We need disciplined directed game here , this
isn't a cocktail party we're not schmoozing the room, it is about picking up
and fcuking chicks.
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Now the good stuff .
My focus in training has been to reinforce success . Rather than looking at
what I fail to do or what doesn't work , I'm now looking at what worked in a
given night's sarging in order to reprodce that for next time.
Tonight I was *ON*. Tonight was like the first time doing aikido and seeing it
"just happen".
Awesome.
The whole night I was having fun. Enjoying it , smiling like a guy enjoying
himself. I was consistently fun and funy , playing with the girls in set. I had
brushoffs and CBs and shit and I just joked on them , my natural response was
funny teasing persistence . I made every set laugh , I was genuine (not a
dancing monkey ) and I persiosted in a mocking way until set s opened and gave
me attraction
It's like Formhandle said a PU should be a fun , sexy interaction , not a shit
fight...
It was great.
Later I sat down to structure what happened in those interactions so I can
reporiduce the structure and the mood of what was happeneing and I'll post it a
bit later , but really th point was that I was cocky , friendly , genuine fun ,
funny and teasingon a real genuine level , and everyone had fun.
Awesome.
I read over and that field report reads terribly, I guess it's because what
happened was a genuine , subtle mood , very hard to express in HTML.
Examples of what I was doing was the "do these jeans make my ass look fat ?"
opener ("No? Damn after all the effort I went to to get this silicone ass
enlargement!" , or going up and enlisting an HB to help me get a super tall
chick (and then slapped the bodyguard frame on her...) all good.
Like I say stand by for the method that might explain it a bit better.
http://www.livejournal.com/users/mike_walden/
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