mASF post by "IN10SE"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, May 5, 2004Hey Guys,
Something that I've been realizing lately - and I call it natural game». The
reason that I call this "Natural Game»" is because when you're just vibing with
a woman - where you're flowing from attract game to comfort game and back and
forth - and things escalate to seduction end game, this is the closest to my
own natural game» as I've yet been able to systematize.
First off - I really believe that flexibility and calibration skills are two of
the basic keys to seduction. I've been realizing this more and more with the
more women I'm with. Now keep this in mind as you read on...
Every woman has 2 basic needs:
1) The need for attraction
2) The need for comfort
Now, with "natural game»", when I'm with a chick, once we've gotten past the
early game hook point (where she's in a convo with me, I'm not just some
stranger, but someone that she's actually engaged in a conversation with. She's
invested some of her energy into the interaction, I have demonstrated enough
value to her that she's not just going to walk away) I get into "Vibing" mode.
Now there's attraction game which is based on being playful, teasing, fun,
light, demonstrating social value, take aways... and there's comfort game which
is based on deeper, more meaningful rapport, and connection.
Now where does flexibility and calibration come in? Now, with this chick, she
could be talking to me - her words are telling me something, the meaning of the
words "the why is she telling me this" is telling something, the context is
telling me something... I'm constantly noticing - "What need is she
demonstrating to me right now? Attraction or Comfort?"
And I calibrate to either attraction game or comfort game based on what NEED
she is demonstrating to me.
Second, I ask myself, "Have I passed the attraction hook point? Have I passed
the comfort hook point?" Because the next phase is End Game and these hook
points are the best times for isolation.
Realize also that in End Game, she'll be demonstrating a need to you to be
seduced. She be giving you signals, she'll allow herself to be in certain
contexts - allow isolation... so that the interaction can flow into End Game.
The End Game hook point is the sweetest one of all - and this is when you can
just take your time with a woman and build up her desire... knowing that she is
commited to the Close.
Natural Game» is about having the flexibility and calibration to flow and vibe
between these phases of the game (Attraction/Comfort/Seduction) so that things
move almost effortlessly to the Close.
Questions, Comments?
IN10SE
www.social-mastery.com
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