mASF post by "silver_evlis"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, July 7, 2005sup fellas...
this is the problem i've encountered recently. i find it hard to make female
friends...u know just friends like some of my guy friends. i'm trying to crash
and burn on purpose, get chicks to reject me and hoping i could just LJBF them
to social proof me.
but this is not happening. as a matter of fact they stay away from me further.
i know for a fact i'm getting avoided not cause i'm creepy or needy, cause i
simply don't come from that frame. for that matter, i'm very non supplicant if
i have to be.
i look at some of my male friends that have GFs, total wussbags they are, yet
girls flock to them like a magnet. now whay the fuck is this. is it cause they
know he's safe....and the fucked up part is that they're getting social proofed
by being AFC wusses...like a gay guy, u know...
i've dropped my PU vibe completely, but maybe my BL and EC is already so
PU-like, chicks can simply smell it from a mile away.
i was thinking abt ultimate state of alphaness...is he really a player or this
rare gift to one particular women, like in a romance novel...
can the guy in the romance novel have several female friends just to chill with
or is he simply so attractive that girls would have to avoid him at best if
they know they can't him.
so that brings me back to my question, should i simply act wuss to get girls to
befriend me, feel safe, and switch gears when i find a SHB that i really like.
all these PUAs run different games, and maybe get different types of women in
the process, if one plays the flash game, it might work well in a party
atmosphere with a high energy vibe...
but all that means nothing if u still don't connect with a chick. we're here
racking our brains as to what's the best model of success. what, where and how
to apply at any given circumstance.
when bush beat gore and kerry, it wasn't because he's smarter...i think he's a
moron. the difference is that he made a connection with the american public no
matter how stupid he sounded.
silver.
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