mASF post by "azalpha"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, November 11, 2004I haven’t posted much recently so here is a little background.
I’m in my 30’s and for most of my life was very AFC. About 10 months ago I took
a Mystery Method workshop and it was a life changing experience. (I posted a FR
at the time if you’re interested.) Right after the workshop, just as my game
was getting decent I got back into a LTR with an ex. That meant I had little
opportunity to use the skills I learned from Mystery. 2 months ago I ended my
LTR and promptly got back into the game.
In the past 2 months my game has improved every week. So far I have # closed
50+ girls, had 12 days 2’s and I have banged 5 different HBs. All 5 are now FBs
in the 7.5 - 8.0 range and all are 7-14 years younger than me. My sex life is
awesome but for me the most satisfying thing is that I have women chasing me
now rather than the other way around. That has been a huge confidence booster
and has made me less needy. The result has been a snowball effect because that
makes me more attractive to other women. Ironically 2 girls have become total
AFCs, buying me expensive gifts and taking me to nice dinners. This is the same
stuff I used to do to impress girls and now girls are doing it to me. Another
positive is that my social life is better then ever. I’m developing a growing
social circle (males and females) and really having a great time. Many thanks
to the guys on this board for all the fantastic information especially Mystery,
ijjjjji, Style, TD, Gunwich and Jlaix.
FIELD REPORT
Even though my game is getting better I still have loads of room for
improvement. Prior to this week my biggest SP was creating attraction with
9's-10's (especially in loud clubs). For some reason I had a hard time getting
past the hook point with SHBs. I knew this was a mental issue and was something
that I could overcome with practice. On Tuesday night I went to a strip club to
work on this part of my game. Of course strip club game is different than
regular game but I decided to practice on some strippers and use that as a
stepping stone. My goal was simple- # close a HB9-10 dancer.
Mystery, Style and others have posted techniques to use in strip clubs so I had
a basic game plan going in.
#1 Use active disinterest to prevent falling into “customer mode”. It’s very
important that the dancer doesn’t look at you as a customer so don’t give her
any $$.
#2 Control the discussion. Don’t let the dancer get started on an auto-pilot
discussion thread. Also don’t loiter in the club too long unless you’re in a
set.
#3 Apply negs liberally as needed. Strippers get bombarded with compliments so
negs are key.
#4. Have good stories and material ready
#5 somewhere in the conversation mention the fact that I have had LTRs with
dancers before (true for me)
I met my AFC wing at the strip club and we sat down at a table. Immediately I
noticed a tall slender brunette with a smokin body standing by the wall. I made
eye contact with her, held it for about 3 seconds, looked her up and down and
then I turned away and started talking to my wing. Since the club wasn’t very
busy this was an AI for her. I told my wing not to say anything to her when she
came over for fear that he might ruin things. She walked over and stood in
front of us but I completely ignored her and continued talking to my wing about
basketball. The key here is that I acted like she was invisible and never
acknowledged her presence. After about a minute she put her hand on my shoulder
but I continued talking like she wasn’t there. Finally she interrupted:
HB: Would you like a dance?
AZ: (still facing my wing) Don’t even talk to me. I hate strip clubs.
HB: Why are you here if you hate strip clubs?
AZ: (slowly turning my head to slightly face her but my body still facing my
wing) Dude, can’t you see I’m talking to my lawyer right now? (touching her
hair) Is this your real hair?
HB: (inspecting her hair with a puzzled look) Yes, why?
AZ: Well it’s nice anyway
HB: (laughing) thanks
At this point I knew I needed to take her down another notch
AZ: You know something? If you were a little smarter you’d totally be my type.
HB (Her jaw almost hit the floor and she slapped my arm playfully) OMG! I can’t
believe you!
AZ: Listen dude, we’re busy so why don’t you go talk to those guys over there.
They look bored (pause) Hey, first I need you to settle something really
important for us…..
HB: OK. What is it?
AZ: Do you believe in spells?
HB: Well, I’m not sure - why?
she sat down in the chair next to me as I ran Mystery’s spell routine. From
there I told a few more stories and teased her for about 15 minutes. She was
totally hooked but I lost interest in this girl because she had a trashy bimbo
demeanor. I # closed her just for practice and then pawned her off to my AFC
wing who was delighted to fill her g-string with $$.
Then I spotted my next target - a petite blonde with a perfect ass. This girl
was easily the hottest dancer in the well-stocked club. Body = 10, face =9.0.
I used the same method as above to send an AI and she approached.
HB2: would you like to have a dance?
AZ: (acting totally uninterested and looking at TV screen) I’m not even here
right now. Just pretend like you can’t see me.
HB2: You look like you’re here, How about a dance?
AZ: (glancing at her feet but still facing TV) Those are interesting shoes…are
they supposed to be sexy or something?
HB2: Of course, they’re 6 inch heels so they should be sexy.
AZ. Cool…. my aunt would like them.
HB2 (looking a bit confused) So do you want a dance?
AZ: Hey dude it’s so cute that your nose wiggles when you talk…do that again….
HB2 starts to say something but I don’t even let her finish her sentence
AZ: You remind me of my bratty little sister. Are you always such a pain in the
ass like this?
HB2: What do you mean? I’m not a pain, am I?
AZ: Hey I want to get a female opinion on something I’ve been thinking about
today (long pause)
HB2 : Ok what is it?
AZ: Who lies more women or men?
Normally I wouldn’t use that opener in this situation but I had a gut feeling
it would be effective. She sat down and launched into 5 minute account about
how her ex BF constantly lied to her. Bingo! She was totally out of stripper
mode and I had control of the conversation. Based on something she mentioned I
learned that she was somewhat LSE. A this point I started doing cold reads
which were remarkably accurate
AZ: have you ever wondered why you’re so attracted to bad boys?
HB2: OMG! That’s so true. How did you know that?
AZ: There are a lot of things I can tell about you from your energy
HB2: OMG! Are you serious?
AZ: What is it that you like so much about bad boys?
HB2: bla bla bla
AZ: Have you ever noticed that in all your relationships you’ve been treated
badly by men?
HB2: Yes it’s true, How do you know so much about me? I’ve never met anyone
like you before. bla bla bla
AZ: I’m curious about your relationship with your father. I have a feeling that
it wasn’t a good one.
HB2:You’re freaking me out! OMG! Yes my father left when I was 2 so I never
knew him.bla bla bla…..
AZ: You know, you’re kinda cute but beauty is common. What else do you have
going for you?
Here HB2 qualifies herself and tell me she wants to open up a yoga studio.
AZ: A yoga studio? No Way! That’s so awesome! I had no idea how ambitious you
are. We have something in common because I own a business too.
I don’t know any SS patterns but this would have been a perfect opportunity.
Regardless she was DDB and totally into me. We continued chatting for about 15
minutes when her COCKBLOCK friend appeared from nowhere.
CB- I’ve been watching you 2 bullshit and you’re not giving her any money.
She’s here to make money
AZ: I agree. Get out there and go make money (pushing her away)
HB2: (to CB) no, it ok. He’s totally cool. I just want to talk to him for a
minute.
CB walks away with a disgusted look. HB2 explains that CB is her best friend (a
stripper visiting from LA) and they are supposed to leave and go to a nightclub
as soon as she makes $100 more.
AZ: that’s cool. I understand. Go make money if you have to. I’ll be leaving
soon anyway
HB2: Yea I really should go make some money
AZ: Hey get this. The strangest thing happened to me on the freeway today……
I go into a story and we chat for 15 more minutes when CB appears again
CB: (angry) WTF?? Have you given her any money yet?
HB2: (to CB) Chill out. This guy is really nice and I like talking to him
AZ (to CB) Hey, I want to show you guys something. Come sit down over here. (I
pull her into an empty seat next to HB2)
I girl coded them and they giggled like little kids. Then I ran the spell
routine and CB goes on a 5 minute tangent about how she never tells anyone but
her mom is a “good witch”.
CB: Hey you’re a fun guy. You should come out with us tonight. It’s hip-hop
night and we can all dance together.
AZ: That sounds awesome but I have other plans already (true)
CB: Oh please cancel them - we want you to come with us.
AZ Not tonight and I actually have to take off to meet my friends. It’s been
great meeting you guys. Too bad we can’t continue this conversation some other
time.
HB2:OK, give me your # and I’ll call you
AZ: No, I don’t think so. I don’t give my # to girls because they’ll just throw
it away.
Hb2: Ok I’ll give you my # then
AZ: Well if you really want to talk to me again then you’ll have to program
your # into my phone.
She punched her real name and # into my cell.
AZ: Is this your real #? You’re going to piss me off if you put some phony # in
there.
HB2: No, I swear it’s my real#.. Call it right now if you want to check.
You’ll get my voicemail.
I made a mistake by not calling it right then. We exchange hugs and I eject.
CONCLUSION
Total time in strip club : 1 hour 15 minutes
Results: 2 # closes and I have a day 2 with HB2 tonight. But more importantly
it was a huge confidence booster that carried over to my regular game. I solved
my SP and the rest of the week ended up being my best so far. Now I can
successfully game 9s instead of the 8’s as before.
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