mASF post by "esk6969"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005Wow. Well, at least you certainly seem to have the "I am the prize" frame,
LOL!
Sorry, but I have to agree with the chick on this one. I know you're a PUA,
that's not in question here. I get great value from your posts. But I can't
help but look at this mail you sent her, as a total AFC/supplication backslide.
The whole tone of the letter, is very much like you are trying to MAKE her
realize she has lost the prize with you, because she is too "headcase, stupid",
whatever, to see it for herself. How does this differ from the AFC who gets
LJBF'ed, and says to himself "well, fuck her, it's HER loss", while he goes
home to have sex with his hand, while she goes back to fuck the "jerk"
boyfriend she just spent two hours complaining to him about?
Her reply was very appropriate. Really, what did she do? You guys met up a
few times, made out, nothing serious. She fairly obviously has other shit
going on, and was willing to include you in that, but not to drop everything
for you. Isn't that what we tell each other all the time? Like in my sig,
"get your validation from your LIFE, not your women?" But now that a woman
follows that, and doesn't fawn over a man, she's a headcase?
No question, she is self-centered. So are you! In your OP, you mention you
couldn't get together with her one time because you were meeting an LTR, but
when SHE can't get together, because she's hanging out with her flatmate or
whatever, SHE's a bitch?
>I replied with:
>
>hey MILF,
>
>relax dude, dont bite my head
>off. :)
>
>i simply mentioned what i
>thought was appropriate and
>called for. if u
>think it was mean then you
>need to grow up as it wasnt,
Sorry, it WAS mean, and bitter spirited. And, most of all, unecessary. If you
are no longer interested in seeing someone, that's usually indicated simply by
not seeing them anymore. Not calling or writing them, and communicating to
them how you won't be communicating with them. That's very chick-like.
*I* never thought I would be saying this to *you*, but it sounds like you've
got a touch of the 'ol oneitishere. It sounds like GFTOW time.
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