mASF post by "oneart"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005About a year ago, I downloaded DavidD’s ebook. At the time, I was a complete
wusshomo. From David, I quickly learned how to eliminate my supplicating
behavior, but being a slow ‘reading-learner’, I didn’t manage to capture the
elusive f-close.
Fast forward a year later. I purchased one of his DVD programs and it made a
world of difference! Within 30 days, I went from this place of ‘anti-wuss
behavior but completely clueless’ to a completely insane f-close! I work in
the field of multimedia learning, and I should have known that effective
learning happens through different media for different people. My GPUA humble
advice is: if ebooks and these forums aren’t working for you, try audio or
video (and vice-versa). The results can push you to the edge of revelation!
After watching a DVD program, concepts such as C&F, reframing, evolving your
inner game» and talking through a woman’s persona really sunk in. I put this
shit to work with a willing participant at work (I feel kinda shitty after
reading Mystery’s FAQ’s about using a colleague as a ‘practice dummy’, but she
is fucking hott and incredible in bed! He is right though, it’s not
particularly fair.) Anyway, now that I’ve done the deed, my take-aways are
this: Being cocky and neg hits work really well with extraordinarily confident
women. Body language, especially an open and cool posture, combine with
push-pull works well with in-tune women, and Ross’s palm on the neck combined
with DavidD’s slide up into the hair with a gentle pull results in an orgasmic
‘oooh’ from the women I’ve tried it on.
What I’ve learned so far is that this latest buzz word known as ‘congruence’ is
critical to success. To quote Bob Dylan: ‘Take what you can use and leave the
rest’. Learn and implement only those techniques that are inline with your
philosophy, temperament and personality and you will have the success you want
and be ok with it!
Last note: If you are particularly intelligent male, befriend the
not-quite-so-intelligent alpha male and his main woman. She is likely to be as
intelligent as you and she is with this ‘natural’ for a reason. You can learn
an awful lot from this couple if you genuinely like and appreciate ALL people!
He is usually really cool and a lot of fun, but you can only befriend this
couple if you can ‘congruently’ be humble.
This shit has changed my life. Thank you all for your input and best wishes
for success to all! Final, final question to those with more experience: I’m
a tad concerned about returning to work Monday morning. I will NOT get caught
in the oneitistrap, but I would like to keep her as a FB. I know she is
amenable to that and I don’t want to fuck that up. I think having her in my
life could temper my ‘neediness’ as I go out in the world, and concurrently,
spice up her life as well. Seems like a win-win to me, but I am humbly green
as hell so any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Peace-
oneart
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