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mASF post by "LaingGod"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, April 4, 2005

Okay I have a question about online dating. In my case, I got this one girl to
give me her number but she seems a little disdainful. So I have a few question
here...

first, how do I go about making the initial phone call? I don't know this girl
at all. What should my initial contact consist of and what should I talk about?
DD has mentioned numerously that the first phone call should be used to arrange
a meeting. But it feels weird and stalkerish if I just picked up the phone,
dailed her number, and said "Hey, how are you, why don't you meet me for coffee
at so and so and at so and so time, bye!" I mean we've only exchaged about 4
e-mails and know nothing about each other and I'm already going to ask her to
hang out?


Here's her response to my initial message and what followed after...

Her:
"IM me at [deleted] and we'll talk . . . you seem interesting to say the
least."


Me:
"Sorry but I don't do instant messaging. I'm not interested in an internet
buddy. If you really want to get to know me (obviously you do) then phone me up
at [deleted]. If you're shy or uncomfortable with that then you can leave me
your info and I'll get back to you. If you don't want to then that's ok. Other
than that, there's nothing much else I can do for you."


Her:
"How sad . . . well, my number is [deleted] . . . call if you feel so
compelled."

I don't understand is she insulting me? Should I email her back and say
something about that comment? I mean, I just got her number about half an hour
ago. When should I call her? Should I call her now? Wait an hour? Wait until
tomorrow? When should I call? Should I even call her at all? Should I email her
and tell her to call me? Basically, what would YOU do in a situation like this?