mASF post by "Jimbo"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005
Good post Breakbeat.
I guess it comes in the right moment for many people here, as i perceive a
fucked up tendency on mASF where people use techniques as ways of protecting
their weak egos in their interaction with women, creating an overall negative
frame.
With your words in mind, they could get some balance in their way to becoming
PUAs.
Best regards.
Jimbo
On 8/4/05 6:00:00 AM, breakbeat wrote:
>Here's an interesting subject
>for anyone who would like to
>go beyond the usual "boo hoo
>hoo all the women are so bad
>they don't want to sleep with
>me better learn to manipulate
>them well enough so I can
>force them to even though they
>really don't want to" stink
>that's being copied and
>re-copied all over this board.
>
>This post is different. It
>comes from someone who has
>learned to think for himself,
>and the influences in this
>post come mostly from outside
>ASF, and for that matter
>mostly outside the world as it
>exists today. It is about the
>world as it will exist
>tomorrow. Hence, it is
>probably quite different from
>what you are used to if you
>are an ASF regular. And, it
>will confront you with the
>deepest neurosis of the ASF
>typical thought, hence it
>might be painful. Read it
>anyway and forgive yourself so
>you can leave the manipulative
>bologna behind you and start
>getting down to business, the
>most important business of
>all, and that is real life.
>
>So often on this board is
>discussed the "woman who
>believes every little moment
>of her time is so precious
>that her mere presence is a
>gift to humanity." Also, it is
>said, that it is necessary to
>lock, trap the women, "get
>into her head", show her her
>place, phase shift, do a
>dance, stand on your head to
>get her attention, pattern
>your way into her trust, and
>once she does find the best
>way to demand a blow job.
>
>Folk, this is just plain
>insane.
>
>Imagine you are this woman for
>a moment.
>
>You feel within yourself this
>deep sensation of flowing,
>thriving health, beauty,
>sexuality and glamour. Every
>day when you get up in the
>morning, you just feel plain
>good about yourself and who
>you are. All your surroundings
>confirm your own deep
>knowledge about yourself: You
>are a very, very good person.
>People like you. People are
>attracted to you. People will
>even pay for pictures of you,
>and will hang them up in their
>bedroom (!).
>
>Now there must really be
>something about you. And there
>is, because you believe it!
>
>Of course, where there is
>wealth, there are the beggars.
>Won't you please please
>pleeeeeeaaase give me some of
>your beauty, sex, love status
>so I can have at least a
>little of it in my life, talk
>to me for a second so my
>friends are impressed, look at
>me, confirm me, validate me,
>and best of all, let me fuck
>you or give me a blow job.
>
>So that I can then come on you
>and throw you out like a good
>ho. So I can demean you and
>make you small, so I may look
>a little less small in
>comparison. So that I can be
>the dark spot in your life, so
>I may prove to you that there
>is darkness in life, after all
>my truth is truer than yours
>since I am the one perceiving
>it, it must be!
>
>I tell you any one who has
>only a speck of self esteem,
>when the person comes to tell
>them they are worthless, IF
>the person comes at all, will
>know only one reaction:
>
>YOU ARE TO BE IGNORED. And
>rightly so.
>
>So flabbergasted, the ASFer
>will wonder why he has no
>success with these high
>calibre (high self-worth)
>women and call it a "bitch
>shield", find ways to
>circumvent it, and find the
>fear spot in the woman he
>perceives as having high self
>worth so he can use it to
>manipulate his way into her
>world and PRETEND he is loved
>and approved by this jewel,
>but he still can't believe it
>would be true that a woman
>this precious would be with
>him, so he has to reduce
>women, demean them, and make
>them small and ugly so he can
>believe they would be with
>him, who is small and pretends
>to be large.
>
>Ironically, this way he
>defines a "high calibre woman"
>as a "woman who is unfriendly
>at first but then can be
>demeaned and manipulated into
>sex by certain techniques".
>Women who truly have high
>self-esteem will un a
>sub-conscious level see right
>through this farce and stay
>far away, where the so-called
>"PUA" will be able to play his
>game of pretense with women
>who are on his level, who are
>trying to "pretend" to be
>worthy, but are not.
>
>So that's the problem. You
>come to this forum because you
>have a problem with women (if
>you hadn't you wouldn't have
>attracted this forum). You
>have tried to correct this
>problem by the use of
>techniques and are likely to
>have become so obsessed with
>this goal to the point of
>having sacrificed most other
>objects in life, ironically
>without really solving the
>problem.
>
>Because the real reason you
>are not constantly surrounded
>by loving, friendly, sexy and
>beautiful women with really
>high self-esteem, should that
>be your goal, is because you
>attract into yourlife not what
>you want as much as what you
>are.
>
>If you want Haute Création
>Française in your life, you
>gotta BE Hause Création
>Française. If you want to be
>loved, you have to be loving.
>If you want to be approved of
>and accepted, you have to be
>approving and accepting.
>
>In other words, be the source
>of whatever you want.
>
>Want to be perceived as being
>worthy to be fucked by the
>most wonderful of wonderful
>princesses of this world?
>
>Well, better start being a
>wonderful prince then, cause
>she ain't gonna be screwing
>the serf; princesses simply
>know that would mean the end
>of being a princess, and being
>a princess is nice; I can't
>imagine why anyone would give
>that up for servitude.
>
>Bottom line is simple:
>
>* Stop changing others, change
>yourself
>* Stop finding ways to get,
>find ways to give.
>* To change your outer world,
>change your inner world.
>* Your inner world is made up
>of the thoughts, feelings,
>words and actions that are
>habitual to you
>* You change that by repeating
>statements to yourself,
>either words (affirmations, "I
>am attractive"),
>imagery/sounds etc.
>(visualization), or action
>(acting like your new truth is
>already there, i.e.
>you're not a kid out for the
>first time wondring
>how to be a player, you ARE a
>player and you KNOW it.
>
>As long as you don't feel
>inner certainty that you are
>worthy of getting what you
>want, and have an inner
>knowing that now is the time,
>you are wasting your time with
>action; better continue
>affirming until you DO feel
>certain.
>
>What is perfectly good is that
>this place is populated by
>people who believe in change
>and possibility. Now it is
>time for this possibility to
>SERVE girls and communitiy
>rather than capitalize on the
>two. This path is much more
>pleasurable for all involved,
>because it has the advantage
>it does not lead to
>self-destruction but
>self-fulfillment.
>
>Questions welcome.
>
>f.m. breakbeat
"The reason of the unreason that afflicts my reason, in such a manner weakens
my reason that I with reason lament me of your comeliness." - Don Quijote de la
Mancha
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