mASF post by "esk6969"
posted on: alt.seduction.relationships, July 7, 2005So here is the latest in ESK's schmoooovve bag of lines (although, this one
actually worked as intended!)
The wife is what a friend of mine once termed, a "workout co-dependent". I
workout - she works out. I get lazy - she gets lazy. I eat healthy - she eats
berries for breakfast. You get the idea.
Lately, we've been on the "kick", alhtough on different programs. She's doing
WeightWatchers - which is a somewhat non-retarded diet program, just not right
for me (it's for pussies who don't lift!)
As she has been following the protocol, she has been losing weight (amazing how
that works). But, she occassionally shit tests me on sticking to her diet.
Makes little side comments about how she's going to try something different,
because she knows it drives me crazy when she's doing something that works, and
then goes and changes it because she's "bored". I'm a big "if it ain't broke,
don't fix it" kinda guy.
In response to her latest iteration of this, I thought of a lady at my office
who my wife knows I don't get along with. Let's call her "Chris Cuntdog" (not
her real name).
So my comment to her nonsense was, "You know, Chris Cuntdog at my office has
been doing Weight Watchers for about 6 months now, and she's lost a LOT of
weight. In fact, I was looking at her the other day, and noticed that bitch is
almost actually fuckable now."
This got the "I shouldn't laugh because that was socially inappropriate, but it
was funny, so I'm laughing anyway, but I'll put my head down and shake it
side-to-side in mock disapproval to cover my ass" reaction. You know what I
mean.
This little comment seemed to accomplish several things:
- It defused the lame shit test. (Intentional)
- It reminded her that physical attraction is important, even if a bitch is
wearing it. It can trump a lot of other things.
- It reminded her I can, and do, notice other women. So be on your toes. (Not
intentional, but a damn nice side effect!)
- It generated a humorous reaction, in an Alpha/non-supplicative manner, thus
generating attraction (intentional)
- It reminded her that the diet program she is on will be effective, if she
stays on it, based on direct, anectdotal evidence.
And, perhaps most interestingly... and although this was not intentional... by
mentioning a dissimilar person, yet in a similar situation, I believe I placed
in her subconscious, through the subtext of the comment, the idea that even a
person in an inferior starting position can become less inferior, perhaps even
superior, by increasing their attractiveness... thus also positing the
corollary that, someone in a superior starting position could potentially lose
that rank by not embarking on the effort of same.
It seems to me that this technique could potentially be useful in a variety of
situations, not just shit tests. I suppose, at core it is a pattern, but most
"patterns" I've seen seek to alter behavior through getting one to imagine
themselves in the described experience (pink elephant effect). This as above
though, doesn't do that, because it doesn't really tell a story; rather, it
simply plays off similarities/dissimlarities in a described situation. It
seems that this could be quite powerful, as it may register at a lower
level/core of consciousness. Is there is a name for this technique? It seems
like something shrinks/PUA's would already know about and use.
Discuss!
"Get your validation from your life, not your women." - L&C
"Girls network" is like the Mafia with the difference that they use the tongue
instead of Beretta. - Franco
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