mASF post by "Chaco" posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, July 7, 2005On 7/27/05 12:34:00 AM, Iron_Rinn wrote:
Sup bro, nice job getting some action - comments below.
>We met – as we had originally >planned – in a mexican >restaurant for drinks. She had >tried to change plans on me, >to get dinner instead but I >stuck with the original plan.
Dunno how I feel about this...I don't see much harm in getting dinner if she
was hungry too...but what you did was fine too.
>She was a bit late and I gave >her a hard time and she said >she’d have to make it up to >me.
Good, but you gave her a hard time playfully, right? I assume not like an
uptight guy...
> >The dinner conversation went >well – I felt like I was >conveying a fairly cool >persona for the majority of >the time. I ran a few patterns >and spoke rather seductively, >shifted the frame to positive >emotions repeatedly, did some >c and f, light kino, assumed >rapport, went into the cube >and reflexology until she >looked like she was about to >melt.
All this sounds awesome! Btw, what is your reflexology routine?
She said she needed a >ride back to her place and I >(of course) obliged.
Big IOI! She wants to hook up!
As we >pulled up to her house, she >thanked me for the ride and >gave me directions to go home. >I was prepared, and used my >standard “well, I’ll come up >for a few minutes, but don’t >try anything funny.” (credit >to whomever I stole this >from). She agreed with, “okay, >you can come up to do >reflexology. But nothing more. >Promise.”
Yeah, sure, nothing more ;-)
> >From here on out, my game fell >apart and soon I was back to >my old AFC ways. She invited >me into her bedroom and >changed into a t-shirt and >sweatpants. I proceeded to do >some reflexology and rub her >back. She moaned and said how >much she liked it.
She wants you to escalate.
Whereas I >was able to do push/pull at >the restaurant earlier to >generate attraction, by the >time we were in her bedroom I >was just trying to get all >over her like a dog on a >random leg.
Hmm, go slow, be seductive...let the tension build, then move in like Jame
Bond.
I went in for the >kiss but she stopped me >abruptly with “you seem >nervous. Calm down. Just rub >my back.” I apologized and >proceeded to massage her [back >to the ol’ AFC ways].
You must have gone for the kiss abruptly or something...not seductivly.
> >After a few minutes we were >getting back into the groove. >I started massaging her tits >and she seemed to enjoy it. >However, as soon as I tried to >lick her nipple she said, >“stop, you are acting like a >golden retriever.” I stopped >and went back to massaging.
Again, sounds like you were rushing and not being seductive.
> >As she got comfortable she >started talking somewhat >sexually. She told me about >how she waxes her pussy >frequently.
If this is not an invite to play with her pussy, I don't know what is.
It was as though I >had seen the light suddenly >turn to green after waiting at >a red light for way too long. >I tried to get my hand down >her pants several times and >she kept stopping me, saying, >“you need to control >yourself”.
Again, sounds like you rushed and moved in too abruptly.
I assured her that >I was in control – only to try >to get my hand down her pants >again 4 seconds later. The >colder she got, the harder I >tried.
Yeah, two steps, forward, one step back.
Then I grabbed her hand >and tried to lead it toward my >cock. I had completely lost >self-restraint. Whatever cool >persona I had created during >drinks had been replaced by a >horny 15-yr-old inside me. > >Finally, she kicked me out. I >tried to kiss her goodbye and >she just gave me a peck and >wouldn’t let me kiss her.
*sigh*...yeah, being seen as bad in bed will cost you big alpha male points.
Good job though, you ran a solid day2 game and basically had this girl...next
time, it will be an LR!
-Chaco
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