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mASF post by "smooth666"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, May 5, 2005On 5/2/05 2:56:00 PM, PlayerSupreme wrote:
>Recently I was reading a ebook
>called The Dating Wizard and
>the author made a good point
>with the following quotes:
>
>"Women are very THOROUGHLY
>checking out your behavior to
>determine if you are THE MAN
>or if you are a “geek”.
>
>Unconsciously, and quickly,
>women assess you, and form
>feelings of indifference,
>revulsion, or attraction.
>
>Women will know if you are not
>THE MAN by sizing up even the
>most
>microscopic incongruities in
>your behavior. (They’ll even
>notice incongruities in your
>attire.)
>
>Women will notice, consciously
>or unconsciously, if your
>words sound
>confident but your tone is
>not, or if your posture or
>breathing show any signs of
>nervousness."
>
>HE ALSO STATED:
>
>First of all, forget all those
>ideas and books about
>“communication” being
>the key to success with women.
>What is the point in being
>even the greatest
>communicator if you don’t know
>how to be a man that women
>DESIRE?
>You can communicate all you
>want, but unless you are THE
>MAN, all
>you will be communicating to
>her will be the fact that you
>are not THE MAN.
>
>And forget those books on pick
>up lines. Definitely not
>natural."
>
>In communication it is my
>opinion that he was talking
>about all the openers and
>scripts that are used at
>times.
>
>discuss--
>
I prefer canned openers for the very beginning because I can deliver them
almost unconsciously i.e. I know exactly what to say even when I am drunk,tired
or totally absent minded. For instance, when I suddenly see a woman in the mall
I am glad to have one or two automatic lines to begin with. I cannot instantly
think of something individual about her THAT IS NOT OBVIOUS to the rest of the
guys who are hitting on her. If I would try my mind would go blank or panic
("does this sound cheesy?").
I think it is very and even more powerful to appreciate something about her
AFTER a couple of minutes talking. For me it is easier and it sounds more
genuine.
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