mASF post by "Gunwitch"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, December 12, 2004
GUNWITCH METHOD 3
Gunwitch method club.
Disclaimer
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laws and civic standards of behavior and will abide by them in the use of this
material.
Hey everyone Gun here again…….
“Get ready for the motherfuckin new shit!”
A while back I set out to discover THE club/bar methods.
My Gunwitch methods and dynamic sex life» book and audio course have taken
street, party, social circle and otherwise non club and bar pick ups to extreme
new heights of success, success that many said wasn’t possible for street pick
ups.
Many do not like trying to pick up women outside of bars and clubs, which is a
shame in my book, but more on this later.
Through many years now, and recent fresh new strategy and analysis in bar and
club scene, as well as training guys to do bar and club pick ups I have
developed some mindsets, action plans, tricks and tactics that will increase
your success dramatically.
I had originally planned an in depth archetype of each club type and how to
game her. As I looked back over the years and hit the club scene again with
fresh analysis I realized one does not need to be that thorough, one only must
understand some key points to take their success level in clubs up a few
notches.
Most of this is for use in LARGE club and bar venues with lots of people and
live or DJ music.
Lets get started in this.
First off we need to checklist the “OF COURSE” shit. Things from my books and
audio, things from ANY source you must have down for this more advanced
material to work for you.
You:
Dress normal or even flashy or whatever. Basically you aren’t looking like a
dork for your own personal niche and venues.
You know women dig sex and want it. Either by logic or experience you know
this.
You are relaxed around women physically and outcome wise. In other words women
do not put you in to a nervous anxiety state and you are not obsessed with
fuckin EVERY chick, and realize this is your SEX LIFE, not a quest to fuck
EVERY chick.
Do not eject, you get rejected. You don’t run off from dead spots in
conversations with women, you realize it is natural, you can stick in there.
ESPECIALLY IN CLUBS AND BARS. Women in clubs and bars often have a knee jerk
reaction to being approached. Sometimes this knee jerk or automatic reaction is
to clam up and let you do the talking, other times it is to be a little bit
snotty or make a verbal quip. Whatever the reaction though you must be past
ejecting on your end and GET rejected before you will move on.
Finally you have the ability to sexually project and vibe, or get attraction
rather than rapport going. Even more so if you do not understand the
difference between attraction and rapport do not read any further.
Basics you must have there. Basics above are good enough to get you a good 1 in
20 club/bar women you approach in bed. That is not the goal of this here club
method though. The goal here is to get a FULL understanding of the advanced
methodology of the club beyond these common volume (approach enough ya get one
in bed) methods, just as I did for daytime, street, and social circle game.
Right off we will discuss YOUR state and how it alters when you enter a club or
bar or packed social event.
CHAOS FACTOR:
“I know all this stuff when at home but when in field it doesn’t come out”. –
95% of club pick up artists.
First and foremost you probably realize that you read this stuff online or
listen to audio or analyze women and get a GREAT strategy, you have it figured
out and go out in the field with it. BOOM that is all gone it seems? Eyes are
on you? Women aren’t like they were in your mind and in your strategy or the
materials you have absorbed?
“This is the really real world!”
Surely it is different. In model? In facts? In logic? No, but in that you have
entered an altered state of mind compared to when you took on the models of
things in the comfort of your home and relaxation.
OR
The material is real, but when you took it on mentally and how you are at the
moment in this social place are quite different.
The thoughts of
“Hell Gun isn’t a great looking guy and he fucks women the same day he meets
them, I can also, I just need to act different than I usually do!”
Turns in to a feeling of
“This chick is moving around, shit her eyes met mine, what did that mean, Gun
is little black letters, her, she, she, she is real, should I go tell her some
jokes and play the clown like I usually do, that is at least comfortable”
Not good. I am willing to bet you do just this. You fall in to the same old
behavior patterns of failure out of desire to be comfortable, to feel in
control.
As I mentioned in Dynamic Approach Often times a guy will lock up and refuse to
approach women at all because he associates it with the anxiety of not knowing
what to do in a female presence.
The way to reframe this is a simple 2 step process:
1.Realize what is happening. Realize your own self and state right then and
there in the club or bar. Realize that what is true and logic and fact is
always true, no matter what your state of mind is.
2.Realize the women and other people as FIRST individuals and second as similar
to others you know. Some chick standing there seemingly alien and unlike you is
JUST AS normal as your last girlfriend or chick you laid was BEFORE you met
her. Realize that she is in fact herself also in an altered state of mind just
as you were until you realized it, because of this massive social scene.
As corny and children’s novel as it may sound “Strangers are just friends you
haven’t met yet” comes to mind.
Actually try imposing the image of a friend or lover on to strangers in the
bar. Imagine them as they may be once you get to know them and how different
they are from regular day-life in this place.
Basically realize you are in a jumbled chaotic state, but yet truth is truth of
what works and what doesn’t and also realize others are not in this state of
mind.
Much like that movie the matrix, they have not freed their mind of it and are
still a part of it. You however are not by simple virtue of understanding this
first concept.
Next we naturally move on to drinking and pot smoking and other drugs in clubs
and bars. MANY advocate not doing this as a pick up artist, and for good
reason. When you take these drugs and booze in the club you enter ANOTHER
collective of sorts. You enter a collective of those not able to even
consciously realize the chaos factor because they have clogged and cluttered
their mind even further. SO MUCH so that they in fact get point 2 of the 2
points of chaos factor done away with, others seem comfortable, YET lose all
ability to realize and understand their own states and habits of failure BEYOND
someone who is sober.
At some point when you have gotten out of the habitual failure you can easily
drink some beers or smoke a bowl and handle this, but not until then.
Next naturally we will talk about THEIR states when they enter a club or bar
and how they alter.
Of course instantly we know that they are not the same person upon entering a
club in their current state as they are normally in day-life.
What states may they be in? A million!
SO the main key is rather than reading her state:
TARGET SELECTION:
NOTHING is more important in cutting down on failure and increasing success
than selecting the right women to approach in a bar or club.
Right off we have the obvious ones.
If she looks you in the eyes or gives you ‘vibe’
Or if she is totally alone in the place.
Right here I will talk about some less obvious ones though:
1.Women that are ACTUALLY interesting and attractive to you. DROP the ego. You
are NOOOOOO pick up artist or player by any means if you do not get this. Stop
thinking you are or that you should be and able to pick up ANY woman you see.
This is not how things work. The “best” club and bar guys tend to report 1 in
20 success rates, because they ignore this factor. They do not approach women
based on desire to really run their best controlled game and fuck her, but
instead out of desire to “have her” for their ego.
Many advocate approaching instantly within a few seconds of seeing a woman. As
a new guy just getting out there this is fine. If you need to rely on
spontaneity in order to have the balls and logic of mind to approach women then
you are by no means advanced. You should be able to screen your targets for
ease of pick up and actual attractiveness to you before approaching, or you are
not in control of yourself enough to do much more than ever get 1 in 20 or so.
This “Approach everything to be a pick up artist” deal does not work for many
reasons. First of all if you are running amok in the club or bar approaching
everything in site you are not in control and focused, your chaos factor will
be still on high. Second you can not relate basic sexual vibes and a good party
vibe to these “looking to cure the boredom of life so I am in a club” women.
You cannot relate to them at all, you are already thinking of your next
approach before this one starts in this kind of rampant “run around approaching
women” state of mind.
SO look at the women. If I have to tell you not to leer at them, stop reading
this. Overall though KNOW WHO you are approaching, watch her and check her out
some before hand, get a sense of her mannerisms, facial expressions, eyes and
features. Not to sound new age crap, but get a sense of her energy before you
approach her, so it does not throw you when she turns out to be something
unexpected. Also get a good look to ensure she is someone you could sexually
vibe with, don’t notice she has a rotten front tooth 2 minutes in to the
approach, look her over and make sure you REALLY want her before you bother to
go in.
2.She just walked in the bar. LEAVE HER ALONE. It is possible to meet her
instantly and stick with her and end up closing the deal later on. BUT this is
WAY harder.
You see in clubs and bar scenes ATTRACTION is king, NOT rapport. “Hook ups”
happen, not “pick ups”. You DO pick her up, but it must be far more naturally
done than a day time pick up in normal settings.
Also known as, she is there for a reason in a club or bar. She probably thinks
“hmm it would be nice to get some dick tonight” but she also is out to party
and have a good time. Unless you can provide more of a good time and party vibe
from the time she walks in until the time you close her than the venue can,
WAIT a while.
When you approach women and say ask them to dance do you sometimes get:
“I am going to talk to someone right now”
“Right now I am getting a drink but maybe later”
“I have to go put my coat away”
Deer in headlights look and “what who are you?”
This is because she hasn’t even gotten adjusted to her initial chaos factor.
Hasn’t “gotten in the groove” yet.
WAIT for them to get settled in. Someone else scoops her up meanwhile, trust in
the fact she will eventually blow him off for the other more exciting things
going on in the venue unless he is more of a party than what the venue offers
her. This will happen the exact same with you scooping her up as soon as she
walks in.
Again this is not chickens running around with their heads cut off we are
playing here. Lay back and be cool and relax. Make sure she is settled in the
place before rushing her, and if she does happen to get scooped up by another
guy, SO WHAT, it isn’t your soul mate wife and lover, again drop the ego, play
the game, don’t let it play you.
3.She is settled in. This may not mean seated and sitting there having a drink.
It could mean she has started dancing or her and her friends are looking around
the club etc. It just means she hasn’t just walked in the place 10 minutes
prior.
These are standard approach fodder. Wait until they get alone for a few seconds
to approach em.
Women dance in packs, go to the bathroom in packs and go get a drink in packs.
At some point they get alone however, more on this later.
Main key is once she is alone swoop in do minor conversation and attract her
enough that when her friends come back she wont let them cockblock you, OR move
her to another area.
Place is LOUD. So long conversations and opening lines or statements are not a
good idea. Standing and yelling in a chick ear is not congruent with normal
rapport. Club rapport is different, but needs to be kept similar SOMEWHAT to
normal rapport.
On street or daytime or normal venues I will simply ask a few short questions,
get her seated someplace and then probe her for conversation based on pop
culture like movies, tv, psychological analysis of people and celebrities, or
music etc. As of course this is no club or bar, she came out to shop not party
and you are a bonus of something fun even just being totally normal and being
in her presence, compared to the rest of her day.
In clubs I have found the “chop chop” method of conversation to be best:
DO NOT WORRY that these lines aren’t instantly attractive or interesting, the
point isn’t to get her to fuck you with the first things out of your mouth. It
is to show her a party vibe and not seem like some boring long-winded ear
yeller. When you get in to thoughts and analysis of things right off the bat
that are too in depth they may not be interesting to her, so your success rate
goes down.
You: Busy tonight!
Her: yeah
You: Did you see that weird guy dancing out there?
Her: no I didnt
You: What are you drinking?
Her: screwdriver
You: EEEWWW YUCK VODKA!
Her: what!?
You: Hit the bar with me I will show you a kick ass drink instead
CHOPPY CHOPPY with a real upbeat fun vibe. No structure or thought to the
conversation, and nothing long and in depth.
You: Why you wearing a backpack in here lol?
Her: what who the fuck are you?
You: hey did you notice that guy earlier with the thong underwear and lowcut
jeans?
Her: No
You: Come check him out ya just gotta!
Ignore shit, “it’s loud and I am an old man I can’t hear everything!!!!!!!” And
move on to the next random thought in your head.
You: (do the hover like in my materials)
Her: (notices you standing near her and looks at you instead of the dance floor
she was watching)
You: Check em out, they all watch each others feet and try to copy each other
Her: hey I do that
You: that’s cause you don’t know how to cut off what ya see and feel the beat
instead
You: Check it out (as you square up with her and grind together guiding her
hips with your hands) close your eyes and feel it (whispered in her ear).
May sound scary the last one, but as I mentioned you gotta have your confidence
and first basic shit down to make use of this.
Main key is as mentioned, very up party vibe.
If a chick has safety circle of a couple of friends, maybe the 2 of em go to
dance with 2 guys, you move in and she has just become bored, BOOM you are the
up party vibe she feels like she just lost and gets sucked in to the new vibe.
Imagine those 3 interactions above with good eye contact you smiling and having
fun swaying to the music a bit and really overall upbeat. It works great doing
the choppy whatever is on your mind stuff IF you have the party man vibe and
good confidence backing it up.
At this point you can go dance with her, or go sit someplace quieter and run
standard attraction game like my dominance to get her matching and then sexual
state so she matches that materials. In many cases in a club or bar setting you
need to mix the “UP or party man” state and the masculine in order to achieve a
dominant frame for her to start matching. You need to fine tune it as a lot of
times “masculine” can start to mean “stiff” which doesn’t work well for her
desire to have a whirlwind of excitement.
Next is figuring her out a bit better with slipping these 2 questions in
someplace:
These can be done at the bar as you show her a cooler drink, or on dance floor
or wherever you moved her to.
“Do you come here often”!? Tounge in cheek totally, shoot her a look like “just
kidding with a pick up line”
In asking this, even joking in a witty manner, she desires herself to answer
someone witty back and will give you some information. Which lets you figure
out if she is from the area, if she clubs a lot etc for some other archetypes I
have figured out.
Also
In redneck voice if in quieter area, tounge in cheek also or if loud dance
club you can just ask it outright.
“You from these parts, where are your friends”
Answers and what they tend to mean but not ALWAYS:
You: You come here often
Her: Anything witty said back, MEANS an intention to get a rapport or a rapport
already in place with you
Her: I never go out hardly anymore since I had kids/got married/started working
long hours, MEANS an intention to get laid of some sort even if she doesn’t
know it yet, stick to this chick like fuckin glue and you will get a lay!
Her: Yeah I go out all the time blah blah blah
The blah blah blah is : I just love to dance/I am a party girl, MEANS usually
she is typical north American club rat style and you need to do some test
touching immediate to gauge her attraction as you don’t really have much of a
shot here at fucking her unless she is physically attracted instant, so you
need to gauge her immediate attraction to save time, if it is good hang in
there, otherwise stick with her, but look for other options and check back with
her over the night if no hotter prospects get going. Also if NO blahblah and
she just says “yeah I got out a lot” assume this is the case.
The bla blah is: “I have never actually been out to a club”, MEANS she is new
to all this, invariably will end up hooking up with someone and not think much
of it, again stick to her like fuckin glue, suck her in to your party vibe
hardcore, act VERY candid and normal towards her so as not to spook her with
her first “club fake act” and then close her as I will talk about later.
Next the answers to “You from around here where are your friends”
Her: I just came out cause I am from xxxxxxxxxxxxx on business/visiting my
parents etc. MEANS of COURSE this chick is looking for an out of town fling.
You can just party with her and dance a tiny bit and ask her to leave with you,
always how it is. I assume because these women know there will be little or no
accountability for any sex that goes down.
Her: Yeah I am from here all my friends are over there (pointing to a large
social circle), MEANS keep her ass away from them if possible, get her dancing,
if not dancing get her to dance, after dancing offer to show her something
someplace else in the club. You MUST get her attracted enough to you for her to
not let them drag her away or cockblock you once they hunt her down and rejoin
the 2 of you. Once they do rejoin the 2 of you it is also nice to have already
sucked her in to your circle of wingmen and friends and your party vibe.
Her: Yeah I am from here I don’t know where all my friends went, MEANS also
great, stick to her like glue. These chicks in certain social groups like this
who are all over the place never talking to each other are GREAT cause they
rarely cockblock or interrupt anything, you basically have a lone woman with no
friends almost.
Once you determine the “type”, or rough type she is of the above-mentioned, act
accordingly and it is a pretty good formula if you have your attraction game
and basics in place already.
4.End of nighter chicks and closing for all types by party vibe.
Sometimes you get nowhere, no one gets anywhere and it has come to the end of
the night, or chicks and guys who have been there and are still there as the
place closes. THIS is the time we all as men from all skill levels come
together to help each other out (and punch each other out some nights). Every
asshole in the place is scrambling for phone numbers from women they met
throughout the night. SO any women from earlier whose friends interrupted you
and a chick are busy with end of the night stuff. No one there that late wants
it to end, or they if bored would have went home earlier.
BOOM you pounce on old targets with
“hey me and my friends are having this after party deal you should follow us”
Even if you don’t have an after party and are just going to go drink with your
buddies, listen to metallica, eat chilli dogs and smell each others farts
until 4am. We ain’t fuckin saints here, LIE and taylor it to the occasion when
you get a carload of chicks to your place!
or if alone “We didn’t get much of a chance to get to know each other and
party, lets hit my place and have some drinks and listen to some tunes”.
Simple, but BEST I have found for end of nighters. They want some more
stimulation, and if they don’t have a better offer and are even mildly
attracted will tend to come back with you maybe half the time. Which by FAR
beats out getting their number and calling them the next day or 3 days later
etc. By then they are hungover, or looking to go out next weekend and don’t
wanna drink, or are shy again from sobering up etc.
Other closing.
There are 2 types you need to close WAY before the club shuts down.
1 is the out of towner with no friends as mentioned above.
Second is what I call bored chicks.
These women are in a nutshell there with lots of friends, party vibe is jamming
in the place, but they are just sitting there seemingly bored as fuck. Their
friends also leave them alone. The reasons here I have found are always
similar. Usually this chick is married, hasn’t hooked up in ages cause she
never goes to clubs and guys outside of them are too pussy to approach her when
sober. This makes her more interested in sex than the party vibe, YET makes her
seem like she is standoffish and bored with everything and prevents guys from
approaching her THERE.
Second her friends know this and by simply being chicks know the code of
cockblocks and lone women being easier prey, so they leave her the fuck alone!
These women need very little party vibe and very little attraction game even.
They simply need you to ask them some questions, volunteer some information
about yourself and then ask em:
Hell let’s blow this joint and go have some drinks at my place and listen to
some good music”.
I have just recent in looking for and doing these had them say “let me get my
billfold”, to “I can’t but give me your number and I will call you” (which I
thought was bullshit but she did call and we ended up fucking, and it turns out
she was with her sister in law, or husbands sister at the club that night).
Many times these bored women seem standoffish or like they just aren’t having
any party vibe or game you throw at them, but they in fact are just like a
frustrated wallflower guy who is so sexually deprived he cant loosen up and
have any fun and is ONLY there to get laid.
On a side note a great strategy if you are one of those guys, and want to
really get with it and be able to party and give off a party vibe, is to go out
with the intention NOT to get laid. Take the pressure off and go learn how to
have a really good time without thinking of women and what they are thinking
and what they are doing. Just go let loose and get in touch with your “Keith
Richards”.
Do this a few times and you will start to notice women noticing you and your
party vibe, then try the more advanced approaches and closing.
Back to closing
Finally with the regular club fodder type of chicks, closing them is simply a
function of when you have become more of the party vibe and attraction to her
than the club has. This takes some fine-tuning and after a few rounds of
getting them stimulated this way you will notice it well. This is the point
where you try to get them out of the club with you, you can use simple lines
like the ones above for trying to get them someplace else with you. Hell you
have become sexually AND excitement wise more to her than this club or bar, so
offering her time alone with you AND a benefit of good tunes and free drinks
will work.
You may encounter cockblocks at this point from her friends.
The solution?
There is no good workable one.
An OUNCE of prevention is worth a POUND of cure.
Meaning if she is attracted enough and sucked in to your vibe enough she will
leave with you regardless of her friends objections. I have had women tell
their friends “don’t be a slut” or “you don’t even know him” etc when she goes
to tell them she is leaving with me, but always they leave with me anyways,
because I don’t suggest it UNTIL she has shown me with her eyes and smiles and
touching me that she is more attracted to me than the place.
On a scale of 1-10 you need like a 6 in attraction to beat her friends 8 or 9
in rapport, for her to tell them to get bent and leave with you anyways.
Some guys get phone numbers instead of trying to pull her out of the club the
same night, but that’s just poor pre planning and lack of calibration, as well
as desire to mentally masturbate or impress friends that they got a phone
number.
You ignore regular venues and go in a club to sustain your sexual appetites and
desires; you have to be ruthless and precise. No farting around.
We aren’t in amateur land at this point gentleman we go for the jugular and
strike while the iron is hot!
OTHER GUYS:
A big topic that comes up a lot of times is other guys.
Say some dingbat with farts in his brain interrupts you and your new lady
friend as you are running your game on her in a club or bar setting.
A simple method from my book and audio I use is this:
NEVER enjoy his vibe at all. He is way up and party guy? He is a dork. He is
telling jokes and being funny? He isn’t funny at all, you don’t even grin or
smile.
YOU surely cant get sucked in to ANY mans vibe or else she of COURSE will get
sucked in to it also. Which isn’t productive at all for you.
Here is what I do and you should try:
Make some sort of noise to get his attention then stare him down with eye
contact as he engages her and shifts to looking at you. When he looks away she
will most likely look at you, you then lock eyes with her, turn to get facing
away from him and at her and roll your eyes as if to say “what a dork” “what a
weirdo” “what a sleazy guy” in mannerism and face, put your arm around her
waist and say “oh hey I gotta show you something” back in party man vibe and
direct her away from him.
Works every time and never starts any shit with the guy.
Disclaimer
By reading any further you understand that the following is for entertainment
purposes only. None of the actions from this point on should be taken under any
circumstances.
FIGHT TIME!
What about when the shit goes down?
I get asked about this stuff all the time. Guys will be out having fun; no
fault of their own and some guy will start shit with them. Some guys from other
more flamboyant wild methods than my own have been pistol-whipped, punched out
and slugged from behind.
I get asked a lot of this stuff cause people know I am a former bouncer, lowest
of top level boxers and martial artist.
The first thing I always tell guys is to avoid places containing giant large
crowds of drunk men. If you TOTALLY want to avoid fighting and bullshit or any
chance of it you just have to stay out of bars and clubs in general.
Anyone who tells you there is no such thing as fights, “punkings”, and beatings
at bars and clubs hasn’t been going in the WRONG places. VERY upscale places,
or places with very good security don’t have a problem with this, the other 999
of 1,000 bars and clubs do.
One cannot be fully taught to defend themselves by text alone, but I can give
you some strategies for if it comes up.
Right off the bat you if going in bars and clubs need to be in fighting
condition of some kind. At least do some upper body weightlifting and hit a
heavy bag/punching bag some to figure out your best power punches.
The textbook way to throw a punch isn’t what we are interested here.
In clubs when shit goes down you usually don’t have a lot of room to move, and
grappling up on purpose is out of the question as if a guy already punched you,
you want to get your licks in before security finally gets there and breaks it
up as you try more complex grappling maneuvers. You also want to end shit fast
and stun or knock the man out, in case security doesn’t get there rapidly and
it goes “the distance” of a full minute or so.
Most knock outs are based on short arm powered punches anyways, regardless of
what boxing trainers and martial artists will tell you. Putting your weight and
legs and pivoting in to the punch is ideal, but not needed or as fast if
everything else is in place.
First basic logic is you MUST knock the aggressor unconscious. A man shot in
both legs, eye ripped out and in severe pain from a ball bat across the ribs
can STILL kill you or hurt you. NEVER rely on a man to be pain compliant. Most
bully types and fighters aren’t.
A sleeping man does NOTHING. Also if you use some stupid as lock and break
someone’s arm or ankle, or gouge their eye out you are gonna have to answer for
it, even if they attacked your first.
So it is not as effective, more dangerous AND less socially/legally accepted to
try to hurt someone.
“ Hit them in the throat, kick them in the balls, kick their kneecap out” are
all fine ways to cause a novice fighter pain, scare them and make them give up.
They are also fine ways to scare the shit out of an experienced brawler yet
leave him able and wanting to fight HARDER out of fear. Ask anyone who
advocates shit like this how many pissed of hardcore boxing gym training, 250
lb, sons of terd farmers they have used it on. Always none. You have no way of
knowing if a man may be a pissed off boxing terd farmer, assume he is.
Kicks above the waist to the head in a club setting in spontaneous attacks are
also no counter of any use.
SO we need a nice power punch and strategy for knock outs.
1. The best punches are straight out punches and long circular hooks using
shoulder, bicep, tricep and chest muscles. PUNCH HARD. This isn’t a video game
or Tv show you are watching, you gotta nail it hard. I cant count the amount of
even big guys I have been hit by who punch like little girls cause they put no
force of will and muscle behind it.
2.You need a TIGHT fist, as this is your weapon and if it is loose will bend
the fingers in on impact causing less of a jarring motion to the mans head and
possibly popping your knuckles our or breaking them for lack of full support
from the other fingers. SURELY I cannot count the amount of loose fists I have
been hit by that though thrown by powerful punchers weren’t tight enough to
cause a good impact. Test loose hand vs TIGHT hand hitting an open hand and you
will see the difference.
3.Punch THROUGH not at. Gonna go a bit for the science geeks here: A knock out
is caused by a pivoting or snapping of the head strong enough that it makes the
brain smash against the inside of, or even rub against the inside of the skull.
This causes an instant overload to the nervous system and a shock like effect
to the body. SO hitting IT does nothing, you must displace the head fast enough
for the brain to touch the inside of the skull.
4.HIT THROUGH THE CHIN. Following principles 2 and 3 hitting the chin is best.
The chin has a nice tuft of fat on it that will stop your fingers and knuckles
from breaking, it also is THE best pivot of the body.
5.Ability to realize you are hit, not hurt is a massive factor also. When a guy
hits you or shoves you or grabs you, realize this is not the end of it. Boxing,
kickboxing, judo, jiujitsu are all great ways to learn than aggression does not
mean submission by you, something the bar sucker puncher or agitator knows from
experience.
6.Hitting a heavy bag/punching bag with “TIGHT, HARD, THROUGH, CHIN” in mind
until you get a great sense of power from your hits is a key. Basically when
you get shoved or take a punch instantly you think: TIGHT them fists, throw
HARD punches, THROUGH the guys CHIN.
7.LEFT RIGHT LEFT until he drops or you do is also a must. You cannot hit the
man and then stop, see if he is ok, or if it’s over, block incoming punches and
resume. Anyone who tells you different has a stupid sensei or self-defense
instructor or has been watching too much TV.
As I said actual training is far better than this strategy alone. People always
ask me though and I can now direct them to this instead of typing the above
over and over.
Also with nothing else available or no time to train the above will serve you
better than anything else strategy wise if some terd farmer decides to attack
you.
RECAP:
Have your basic shit down. Clubs are like the final stage of a video game in
your sex life.
Be cool, not cool as in awesome, cool as in relax and watch the place
Make sure your target is interesting and attractive to you; realize she is just
a lover you haven’t met yet like any others have been when they were strangers.
Despite her strnge state.
Wait until your target is isolated for a quick bit from friends to approach her
in various styles.
Be choppy verbally, don’t think you have to be progressive from the first words
out of your mouth until the time you stick it in here. This is a club, not a
comedy or psychoanalysis encounter group.
Realize the vibe you give off, or the up state is what you wanna be showing,
not yammering away at her all night and fixing her someplace and boring her.
You just talk to not seem like an alien or like you are some weird fucker who
popped a tab of X.
Ask her to get alone when her attraction to you is higher than the attraction
to the place and higher than rapport she has with friends.
Realize that the club should be fun, rejections will happen and learning this
is a process not a means to secure your sex life, but an addition to it.
The above is by no means my complete work. But people really seemed to want to
know a lot of club specifics and even some about fights. In GWM1 and GWM2 and
especially my book and audio I explain closing once alone with a chick,
attraction game, basic verbal methods, basic to advanced internal frames one
can use much much more.
The above is more of “MY usual way” club wise and what has worked for other
guys who take it on.
Enjoy.
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