mASF post by "Gem"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, May 5, 2005So last night I turned on my superhearing, didn't drink too much and actually
heard a lot of what was said about me. Several lessons learnt and my ego took a
bashing...
I went out with a strong mindset, I was going to get laid and nothing was gonna
stop me. I was feeling talkative and confident. The first pub I chose was
packed with soccer fans and I was quite intimidated but ordered my drink and
went to stand somewhere with a bit of space "watching" the big screen. a 2-set
come to stand next to me so I open with a situational soccer opener. I plow
with generic convo and keep going even though I'm scared as shit inside. I know
I look good, wearing stunning clothing and looks to match. The girls are
warming up slowly and I keep cutting out and re-engaging. They go to have a
smoke and I stand and "watch" the big screen again.
So my superhearing turns on and I listen to the guys around me talking about
me. These are 6 foot pretty boys who are bitching and moaning about me talking
to girls! I'm being referred to as an "asshole" and someone who is only there
to pick up girls, etc. I get this a lot and it's quite intimidating. This
happens not only because of my dressing well and looking generally good but
because I've adopted the Asshole Rockstar attitude (quite by accident really)
and guys get very very upset by my mere presence it seems.
So a mixed 4-set stand next to me (not too close) and the girl is giving me AI.
She tells the guys to check me out and I get the usual approval/disapproval
shit. She tells them to go away for a while and stands next to me playing with
her mobile. I think about approaching just as a warmup but I don't, I really
really really don't like Spanish chicks.
The 2-set comes back and I run Best Friends on them. They're loving it and I'm
plowing a bit but my mind just goes blank after that. I've gotta get out so I
say goodbye and move to the next pub.
I make the mistake of going to the next pub too early and there are 0 girls
there for an hour! I drink really slowly and position myself under bright
lights and open to view from all. Alpha BL and half asleep, waiting for
targets.
2 3-sets come in and position themselves directly in my field of view. I start
up the old superhearing and the nicer 3-set who are closer to me are having a
little chat about me. The one girl is telling a fantasy about "He's going to
come over here and he'll be so nice and charming..." but do you think I have
the balls to go and do it? No, of course not! I've stalled BEFORE I even
opened. Sitting around for an hour doing nothing has killed my talkative state
and my guts all in one go. I go to the toilet and "bump" into one of the girls
on the way back. What a fucking stud! I managed to turn below AFC in one hour
flat! The girls timeout and leave eventually. I let them down again. I fucking
do this all the time.
So the place starts filling up and this couple come and sit next to me. The
girl is HOT and she's shooting me EC. I wait till the guy goes to the toilet
and open her, she's into me and things are going well. He comes back and I
leave her to it while I'm scanning the room. He's talking to her while looking
over her shoulder at me all the time, it's actually quite unnerving. I turn on
the superhearing again and he's doing all he can to discredit me to her. "He's
definitely gay, he thinks he's so cool" etc. I go to the toilet and on the way
back go to get a drink. She's at the bar and I get her to buy my drink and give
her the money. We go back to our seats and I ask her if she's with the guy, she
says "Yeah, it's a first date" and I say "Do you want me to leave you guys
alone then" and she says "Yeah thanks, that's so cool of you!".
I'm playing EC with a lovely HB dancing near me and signal for her to join me.
She is enjoying dancing so I join her. I'm asking for her name, but she just
wants to know why I didn't bring my drink along. She doesn't want to talk, just
dance, so we dance a bit. I get bored and go sit down again. She's got guys
dancing around her all the time but she keeps EC with me. I go back to dance
with her a bit again but get bored again. Eventually one of the guys who was
more persistant get her, dance, tonguedown, close. I should have pushed it
harder with kino but I didn't have enough guts and I was playing too hard to
get.
The couple next to me are seriously chatting about me again so on goes the old
superhearing. He's saying "Oh he's not all that, he won't get laid. He's all
show and nothing else." and the girl is starting to agree with him. they
tonguedown and as they leave she says to me "Good luck, I hope you find some."
with fucking pity in her eyes. Jesus, I felt like an insect, reduced to
nothing!
I do a bit of dancing and then leave. No lay, no nothing, another bad night....
Lessons learnt:
Jesus, where do I start....
I obviously am creating an expectation and then not living up to it. If you're
going to look like a sexy motherfucker you should at least have the balls and
confidence to back it up. I do sometimes but not consistently. I'm not keeping
my state good throughout the night and that is because I'm not in set all the
time. Mystery is right, be in set all the time and you won't stall.
I'm getting intimidated by random AMOGs, it's just the sheer number of them and
their reactions to me is quite extreme. I need to be strong enough to walk over
these guys or to ignore them.
I should have closed the chick who was sitting next to me, my game was way
better than that guys' but I'm all being nice and leaving them alone. This is
bloodsport, there's no place for Mr. Nice here. Next time I will take the girl
and the guy can go fuck himself! He spent the whole night talking shit about me
to the girl and I am nice and get him laid! What a fucking idiot I am!!! No
more.
Approach approach approach! I'm getting lazy because of my FBs so I'm not
putting enough effort into closing new ones. Also my AFC tendencies are
creeping back because I'm not out enough!
There ya go guys, hope some people can relate to this.
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