mASF post by "FratGuy"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, May 5, 2005I was hanging out at sonic saturday night, a couple weeks ago, up in the city.
A lot of people hang out there Saturday, including hot girls. so yeah, im out
there to pick the girls up.
I bring my corvette up there as a conversation starter.
There is a 3 set standing out by their car. HB8, HB7.5, and a UG. The HB8 is
the target. She is 5’5”, slim, 100lbs, cute face, decent sized boobs, just my
type. =)
Actually, she might have been 8.5+ because she was dressed down, baggy
sweatshirt, etc, when I saw her.
Im feeling fucking confident. Like im just thinking “how can I start a
conversation without being weird”. Not any of the other bullshit we sometimes
think about like “will she like me, I don’t want to show interest, what if it
it doesn’t work…blah blah”. Non of that bullshit
I walk up totally chilled out, cool, calm, acting normal. No routines at all.
Me: hey, is that your car (they have a cool transam)
HBs: yeah…well no..blah blah blah
The set has blown open because of my frame.
I come up with some stuff on the fly based on the internalized formulas that
running routines have taught me. Tease, tease. Bs.bs.bs. fluff, fluff.
HBs: what kinda of car you got?
Me: over there, the yellow one (acting like it isnt a big deal)
HB8: OMG a vette!!! i love vetts!!. That’s awesome. Let me see it!!!
Me: Ok, I guess. Since you are cute.
**GASP!**
I know, I know, I told her she was cute 5 minutes into the set!!!!
But I did it in a NON-supplicating way. It was more a qualifying way. So that
I wasn’t just jumping through her hoop of “show me your car”. Do you guys
understand this?
HB8: …..thanks. (says this in a really genuine way. Not the way a girl says
it when a lamo tells her she is cute)
So now I have venue changed her away from her group. Her friends are cool and
are staying away so I can hook up with their friend, because they like me
because I was cool with all of them.
We talk about social dynamics. I subcom secret society. I let her know somewhat
directly, in my stories and our conversation, that I understood girls, and
don’t judge them.
I tell some of my funny gay stories. (stories about times ive been hit on by
gay guys, look up my post – “FR: how to lead a funny conversation” to see my
gay stories.
Being able to tell gay stories is
1. funny
2. lets girls know you are sexual and dress well
3. lets girls know that you must be very secure with yourself. Because you
wouldn’t be able to joke about it otherwise.
NOTE: ive found that gay stories will blow out lower value girls. Only for HB7
and above
I think this chick has a b/f. but she refers to him as “her friend”. So that
she won’t activate my “ASD” and make me feel weird about talking to her, and
ruin her chances of fucking me.
Girls are good at this shit, guys. They know exactly what they are doing.
Anyway, this “friend” of hers is the provider type. She gets to drive his car,
etc. She is using his ass. She feels bad about it. So I reframe it for her
Me: well, you know, if he is going to do all these things for you, you might
as well take advantage of it. I mean, if he is going to do this for you, he is
going to do this for any girl. if it wasnt you using him, it would be some
other girl. so it might as well be you.
HB8: yeah, I didn’t think of it like that before. That makes me feel better
HAHAAHHAHAAH
Another thing. She got 3 calls from guys in the time we were talking (same with
other hot girls ive sarged) Hot girls are constantly getting called by guys.
They have more options than you can imagine.
And like with other girls that were into me during the set, they just look at
the phone and close the call, without answering. This is an IOI. I qualify
her on it also.
Me: yeah, you better not answer that. I cant stand girls that answer their
phone when im talking to them….
HB8: yeah…blah blah
This is typical of stuff I did in this set, to act very non-needy. Anyway, I
have a lot of attraction at this point. She has kino’d me a couple of times,
etc.
So then I go into some natural qualifying.
Example:
Me: you know, you are really cool. Most girls are so lame. They see my car
and are like “OMG, give me a ride, give me a ride!”
HB: yeah
Me: when a girl does that im just thinking "oh my god, not again". im so sick
of this
(this shows that im not just a lamo with a nice car. i actually think girls
are lame for acting this way. it also shows that i screen and am not the
typical desparate loser who jumps on any girl he can)
and toward end of set…
Me: (to her friends) this is the coolest girl ive meet…like…all week
HBs: haha
HB8: gee thanks
Me: well, ok, ur the coolest girl ive meet all month. haha
By just being chilled and natural. It makes it easier for her to think of
things to say. When you are doing over-the-top attract routines, she cant top
any of it. She cant think of anything cool enough to say. It fucks up your
conversation ratio also.
The conversation ratio in this set was about 50/50
Another key thing was my ability to calibrate the situation and refrain from
saying things that would lower my value. I calibrated this easily and
automatically just because I was focusing on being a chill cool normal guy.
So when you are thinking in terms of being cool and normal, you automatically
can calibrate correctly.
This means that being chill, cool, and normal is the REAL way to get laid.
Because by thinking in these terms, you can consistently generate attraction
and solid closes
So the set was about 30 minutes long
She has to drop off her friends.
HB8: well hey, you will have to give me your number
Me: yeah, lets trade
(trade numbers)
Hb7.5 asks if I have any hot friends.
Me: yeah, my brother
HB7.5: ohh?…is he single??
Me: well, it depends. He would have to meet you
HB7.5: what do you mean (pretending to not understand)
Me: well, you know how whether or not a girl is single depends on if the guy is
hot or not? Well, my brother is the same way. If he likes you, he might be
single.
(haha, this shit is what girls do to guys all the time, im subcoming secret
society by telling them this shit)
HB7.5: ? (pretending to not understand)
Me: come on, I already told HB8 that I know the deal with girls
HB8: yeah HB7.5, just say yes
HB7.5: ohhh, yeah. Cool. (suddenly understanding what im talking about)
Me: so my brother would have to meet you, then he will let you know if he is
single or not. I don’t know if he is right now.
(this keeps the frame of her trying to get his validation)
HAHAHAHAHAHA. Fucking funny ass shit.
15 minutes later, HB8 calls me up, she has dropped off her friends. she is
making up some excuse about needy my help. She wants to meet up with me
Translation:
I want to fuck you now
But its late, im tired, and I got to get up in the morning. I really hate late
night sex where im tired as shit, and we don’t go to sleep till morning. and i
cant even sleep good because daylight is comming in the window. Then my day is
fucked also. because I cant go to sleep at a normal time the next night,
because I slept in so much the night before…..blah blah.
Its fucking ON anyway though, right guys ??
So I tell her that we will hang out this week. And ill call her. she says its
cool and tells me to definitely call her.
Ok, so this is the weird part
I call her 2 days later. She doesn’t call back
I call her a week later, she doesn’t call back
Total flake
This is my take on it:
She has a boyfriend, who she is using and needs the support of. She feels
guilty. Once she came out of state, she decided that she shouldnt fuck me
She just wanted a ONS that night
this has happend to me twice now.
what do you guys think? any similar experiences?
-FRATGUY
www.sarging.com
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