mASF post by "InnerCalm"
posted on: mASF forum: Tactics / Techniques Discussion, November 11, 2004On 11/16/04 2:06:00 PM, Judas Soprano wrote:
>Just wanted some feed back I'm
>reading the david dangelo book
>as it had this excuse me
>opener..tell me what you
>think..
>
>Me "Excuse me....I noticed
>when you walked in and I
>thought I'd take a second to
>find out what you were like"
It's intriguing, builds curiosity, and starts her imagination working = 5
points
>
>Girl- "Really?"
>
>Me- "Yes for some reason you
>moved my curiosty so I felt
>like Yielding to temptation."
Too much explaining = minus 2 1/2 points = 2 1/2 points.
>
>I kinda have the James Bond
>mindset here sorta like "your
>beneath me but I am willing to
>spend a few seconds to see if
>you can intrest me..." anyone
>see anything wrong with this?
You're beneath me, but I'm willing to see if you can interest me, sounds like
you don't know what you're talking about, or you're willing to lower your
standards, even though you already know she's below you, which is prejudicious,
not the best mindset = minus 2 1/2 points = Good opener/Worthless follow up.
Follow up is more important than a good opener, the opener doesn't really
matter, if theirs nothing behind it, it's useless.
Communicating that she's beneath you, and then communicating that you're
willing to lower your standards is fake, their conflicting terms = weak
mindset.
In other words you don't actually believe your own talk.
You're not James Bond!
You're trying give off the impression that you are, but you're not, so it's
incongruent.
It can work for you, as long as you know just how incongruent it is, and play
it that way, it's like using lame ass pick up lines.
As long as you use them in a way that says you know their lame, you'll get a
good response, because it's congruent to how she perceives you and how you
actually are.
That makes it a lot easier for her to accept you.
On the other hand, if you're incongruent, and don't communicate to her that you
know it's incongruent, and instead keep trying to play one side or the other of
the two in congruencies, then she'll feel confused about you, and she'll very
soon generalize that into LJBF or get lost or something to that effect.
It doesn't matter, you don't have to perfect anything to get laid.
Matter of fact, the more "Perfected" your game is, the less likely you'll get
laid, because when you try to perfect every little detail of your game, you
become rigid and inflexible, and that's no fun for you or her.
Just go with the flow, if something you do crashes badly, recognize it, and
show her you recognize it, laugh it off, don't take it seriously.
Lighten up man, it's not that big a deal.
Really it's not, life isn't that serious, unless you take that way, but that's
not much fun where seduction is concerned.
Theirs a time and place for being serious and making sure you've done
everything right; However, seduction isn't that place.
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