mASF post by "Dimitri" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2004On 7/6/04 12:06:00 AM, Lifestyles_69 wrote: >Seems like everyone on this >board has jumped on the girls >are evil bandwagon. Or "DON'T >TRUST GIRLS!!! THEY LIE AND >CHEAT AND SUCK DICK FOR >CRACK!" > >Its basically a frame to >protect us. Its to keep us >from getting hurt. If a girl >cheats then its like: "Oh >yeah, all women cheat" > >Its funny, how many women will >actually be swept away by a >money guy? NOT THAT MANY.
That's soooo flawed thinking. The whole argument of, "Mystery isn't common,
therefore it's unlikely that my girl will run into Mystery and fuck him..."
The idea behind "all girls cheat" is that for 99% of all women, if a guy
triggers certain reactions and emotions inside of her, she will cheat. This can
be lessened by a guy who is really solid and rocks her world, but not
completely.
Women can't control themselves, on the whole. If you're really good and have an
exceptionally strong woman, there's a chance she won't cheat. But that's about
it.
>You think Mystery is gonna >come in and sweet talk your >gf? Haha. Yeah if you live in >LA and your gf is model >calibre. > >What about the alpha guys who >approach girls during the >day...wait, that doesn't >happen. Or if it does, they'll >use some lame pick up lines.
Flawed thinking, man. Most women interact with some men on a regular basis. If
your girl is hot enough, she gets implicit and explicit offers for sex on a
daily basis.
There will be naturals she interacts with. If they trigger certain feelings in
her and flip the right switches, she'll fuck them.
>Another thing I don't get, >maybe the pimps on this board >have too much free time. Yeah >if your sarging 24/7 in party >scenes, you'll have a bunch of >overnight gfs. You can't >except commitment or trust >with party girls. > >Basically its a FIND issue. >The "good" girls are usually >in groups of friends and they >don't go out that much. > >THEY EXIST!!!!! THEY ARE NOT >FICTIONAL.
I once heard someone either say or write, "A woman is only as faithful as her
options."
I believe it. If you find a good girl through social circle, she probably won't
*be* cheating, no. But she *will* cheat if a guy flips the right switches in
her. Man, I do have a life, and I've fucked a lot of guy's girlfriends.
>Social circle PU is the >easiest way to find these >girls. I met my ex-gf through >friends and she was a very >cool girl. My bro has a cool >gf right now who he met >through friends.
Oh, agreed. Social circle is great for getting girls. Basically, get into a
social circle and don't fuck up and you've got your pick of the litter.
>This attitude of "girls lie >and cheat" is a generalization >found in party scenes with hot >party girls. TD mentions >"super elite" hotties...yeah, >they might be pathological >liars and cheaters...
Man, I've seen it. Little waitresses in small towns. Conservative, religious
girls. Girls who really, honestly, truly love their boyfriends.
I once had a girl almost start crying the third occasion before I fucked her.
She said, "Why do you make me feel like this...?" in tears. Then we fucked and
she forgot all about it.
She honestly, truly, completely loved her boyfriend. She even confessed to him
that she cheated after the first time we fucked. She had no intention of doing
it ever again, but WHAM, I flipped switches in her and she couldn't help
herself.
>I guess my point is, the whole >frame is unhealthy and we >should chill the fuck out and >stop looking at women as >cheaters who will suck off the >next money guy they meet...
But it's *true*. If you haven't seen what I've seen, maybe you won't believe
it. But let me assure you, it *is* true.
"Welcome to the real world..."
>Lifestyles > > >PS. Yes, i'm afraid of getting >hurt ...
That a joke? Many a truth is said in jest.
If there are any lingering feelings of afraid of getting hurt, *that* is a
problem and you ought to work on that.
Grandmaster Dimitri, Swash-Buckling Pick-Up Artist-
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