mASF post by "Organic"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, February 2, 2005On 1/31/05 9:24:00 PM, kory wrote:
>I've
>read a lot on this site.
Then you should know that this post belongs in 'Missions' (not 'Field
Reports'). But, it's all good.
I love your comments because I used to feel the same way but now I've had the
great joy of seeing through many of these misconceptions.
>I see a girl with
>friends... I back off because
>of the friends (wouldn't want
>to interrupt).
Lol...
You *do* want to interrupt. That is what you do, you are a pickup artistYou interrupt people to give them the great pleasure of your company. Even if
they don't like you, they still get the pleasure of you breaking up their
boring mundane routine life. If it doesn't go well, you just say "ok, have a
good night." and you leave.
But, when you start approaching these sets, you'll realize that 99% of them
open easily. Just stay away from people in a heated argument, or a longing
embrace. If it looks like they're *really* *really* having a moment, then it
would just be interrupting.
>I see a girl
>with a guy (or guys) and there
>is no chance in hell.
Again, once you start opening these sets, you'll realize that a huge % of the
time it's not a BF. Just be sure to engage the guy. Or try this: when the
girl say's something, turn to the guy and playfully say "man, she looks like
trouble." These kind of things usually disarm them because you're bonding with
the dude and dissing on the chick - the opposite of what they'd expect.
If it turns out they are in a happy relationship, you just say "ok, have a nice
night." and you leave.
I see a
>girl by herself... and I
>might talk to her.
Yes. A good start is to see if you can get her laughing.
>I will, by Sunday of this
>week, aggressively engage and
>establish at least one solid
>close. If I fail... no
>Superbowl.
personally, this kind of ultimatum doesn't work for my psychology.
For me, what works more is: "hmmm.... this guy on the internet said I could
open a guy-girl set. Well, there's only one way to find out. Let's go
experiment. Let's go have fun."
Have fun with it. Go open 20 sets with a guy and a girl. Don't try to hit on
the girl, just start a conversation. And then report back here. I bet you'll
find that 15 of them were just friends/brother/roomate/school buddy, etc...
So, do it for the superbowl, or do it just for the fun of finding out what's
really going on.
Now, when I go out and I see a guy-girl, I usually get so curious about: is he
with her? how did he get her? does he have game? Would I blow him out if I go
in? how do they know each other? Did he meet her on a cold approach? How
does she feel about him?.... on and on...
I get so damned curious that I have to open the set just to find out.
The other night, I did this and the guy non-chalantly greets me with "hey
sweetheart." wooa... AMOGed... that shit caught me off guard but was funny as
hell. He blew me out, but it was fun.
Ok... go get 'em
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