mASF post by "rocker44"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, June 6, 2005On 6/20/05 1:19:00 AM, Tempest wrote:
>Right now, I use:
>- Would you ever date a guy in a
>wheelchair?
>- Do women find piercings on guys
>attractive?
>- Do women find the rockstar David Bowie
>hot?
>- I'm thinking of dying my hair...
>totally blonde
>- Who sings this song... "you spin me
>right round...."
>
These are the absolute worst openers you could be using. All of them have been
shared with the DYD community and every loser guy is out there using them. They
also require no effort on your part to learn and openers are like 'blond hair'
or 'piercings' are even worse because you're qualifying yourself to the girl
when you use them.
Pick a more involved opener, ONE opener and get really good with it. In my
experience some of the best ones I've used that have been shared with the
community are:
Style's Jealous girlfriend (but this one is WAYY over used too, so don't learn
it)
Mystery's Black Nails opener (Long and involved but the opener is very modular
so you don't have to tell the whole opener and cut it off at anytime)
Swinggcat's 80s Dog opener (Good opener and it hooks the girls fast)
Design's Belly Button opener (It's funny as hell and great for mixed sets)
Style's Two-part kiss opener (I've just started using it's opened 100% for me
so far)
If you want an opener that's more fun and more like a pick-up line, try
Wilder's Fat Elvis opener, Jlaix's Thug Lovin' or Style's Dental Floss opener
(my roommate has lot's of success with Dental floss, I should try it out myself
one of these days). But openers like these should only be used at venues where
its appropriate (think meat market or dive bar).
>You get the idea. Mainly opinion
>openers. I just want to mention, too,
>that I do use situational openers and
>improvise/natural, as well. But,
>running routines/canned material is
>clearly the most efficient and quickest
>way to convey your personality and build
>attraction (atleast for the MM
>structure).
>
>It's not only with opening, but also
>midway through set while stacking or
>doing multiple thread theory...
>sometimes I get hesitant to throw out a
>story, since it could've been used a few
>weeks ago by a wing.
>
>I need to learn how to hold my frame.
>One time this girl was totally busting
>on me with "is this what you do? you
>are such a loser, get a life, etc..."
>
This may sound a little harsh, but if you're getting this kind of response
you're probably ARE coming off as a loser. I got this kind of response for the
first month I went out, probably because I was acting all whack.
But now if I fuck up and run material someone else has already run I get
totally different reactions. They'll say things like "some guy just told me the
same thing in a bar two weeks ago" then they'll look at me and say things like
"oh, I'm sorry, keep going" or they'll make jokes like "do you get these pickup
lines off the internet or something... I'm just kidding, it's cute keep going"
and stuff like that. They do this because they want the interaction to
continue, they're not trying to get rid of me.
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