mASF post by "razorjack" posted on: mASF forum: Tactics / Techniques Discussion, January 1, 2004On 1/28/04 10:21:00 PM, TylerDurden wrote:
>This is similar to how when >girls find out that I run >pickup workshops, they just >sleep with me.
>At the same time, I prefer to >subcommunicate this kind of >thing, by just not actually >SEEMING like I'm trying to lay >her. > >I do that by disengaging the >foreplay over and over. Like >a girl, I get distracted by >other stimulus', and put up my >own LMR when she touches areas >that are off my limits. It's >a basic frame reversal. > >I'll literally cut off the >foreplay, and start blabbing >about something that I just >thought of, totally >enthusiastically. I'll >massage her a bit, and then >re-engage kissing hard. > >But at all points, she's not >sure if she'll get it or not. > >I like subcommunicating to >girls that I'm with other >girls, rather than directly >verbalizing it. I've tried >verbalizing it and had mixed >results. Some girls were fine >with it and even get turned on >by it. They got competitive >and tried harder in bed. But >other girls got uncomfortable >and just got up and left. >I've had this actually happen >a few times. I've since >dropped it after a few >negative experiences. > >I'm not a fan of directly >verbalizing, and prefer to >just leave them suspiscious by >my actions. >
Yeah, I hear you TD. What I've realized is that the timing is very important.
It's not so much IF you verbalize, but more WHEN you verbalize it.
Like for instance, I'll NEVER verbalize to attract a chick, I've done this
before and I've also gotten mixed results. You have to also "read" the chick to
see if she can handle competition, with the club chicks this is usually not a
problem. :) The ONLY time I'll verbalize it is after I've already "hooked" her
and I'm getting resistance. And this is not that often.
And when I do verbalize it, I don't make a big deal out of it. It's one short
sentence and that's it. I let her wonder about the rest.
-Razorjack
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